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		<title>Parenting 'Tweens (9-12) Forum: SOOO FRUSTRATED - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>today was a horrible day....my oldest daughter age 11 was just testing my patience today...i did not do too good either. i lost my temper so...</description>
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			<title>Comment by lostnlonely96</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3113807-sooo-frustrated/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Have you noticed her grades slipping since you and your hubby have been having marital problems. I only ask because my son is a very good student but when I made his dad <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> due to infidelity issues his grades ended up dropping. 
  
 I know you have other things to do other then sit with her when sh...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 08:23:15 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by CrazyKat</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[My daughter went through a period of having difficulty with <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> and having an attitude from hell. After losing privelages and a constant reminder to do her best-she is doing much better. I ask her grades from each class weekly. I have her show me her homework and if she needs help-I will help but...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 09:55:26 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lonley2long</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3113807-sooo-frustrated/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Yes, lostnlone, i have noticed that her grades were slipping since her dad and i were having problems, but they weren't that bad. she has also had to go through this transition from switching this year from grade <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> to middle, which is very difficult cause they do expect way too much from them a...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 21:58:58 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lostnlonely96</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Yeah my son also transitioned into middle <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> this year and it has been quite interesting at times. I know what you mean by kids teasing and being mean at this age also. 
  
 Try <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Positive_Reinforcement" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Positive_Reinforcement')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Positive Reinforcement">positive reinforcement</a> for the good grades that she does get.I also agree that they give these kids alot of work and res...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 06:28:02 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by angie21</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3113807-sooo-frustrated/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[are past eye/ear problems coming back or worsening?  Has she been tested for <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Research" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Research')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Learning">learning</a> disabilities?  Does she know how to organize her work and prioritize <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> work?  My best friend was always getting into trouble in <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> and her grades fell horribly when we treansitioned into middle <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a>.  A ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 10:27:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lonley2long</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[yes, angie21, we have her checked yearly for her eye/ear problems, this is really the first year she has struggled so badly.  i think that with the transition from one <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> to the other plus kids at <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> picking on her at times, and with her dad and i having marital problems, it has just put a s...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 14:07:55 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by shawnpw</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Just wanted to remind everyone of the parentwarrior website! 
<a href="http://www.parentwarrior.com" title="http://www.parentwarrior.com" target="_blank"> http://www.parentwarrior.com</a> 
 It has loads of great information!!!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 19:02:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lant</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I know it is hard to find enough hours in the day, but it sounds to me like she is just begging you for some one on one attention. The laundry and dishes can wait. Sit your child for 1-15, even 30 minutes while she does her homework. I have been a single mother of two working two jobs, so I know it ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 09:47:54 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by cazzapb</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[im with lant on this one. 
 sometimes my housework has to wait for days because i have work and then one of the kids needs me to do <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> work or listen to them read or we might just have a walk out. i couldnt care less if theres a few dishes in the sink, or i need to vacuum as long as the kids are ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 12:10:17 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by federalmom</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[maybe she has PMS? about school- ask the <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> for help for her. I knwo my daughters <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> is very good about this.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 16:26:05 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Thriver</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Can you jsut stay int he same room with her while she does her work?  Or maybe have her be in the kitchen at the table, while you make the food or wash up.   I heard that if the parents are in the same room, not even sitting right next to them or helping them, just in the room the whole time, kids d...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 00:24:11 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by fixation</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[If your child thinks your on the computer a lot then I'd listen to her. Children are going to try to tell us their feelings in round about ways, not straight to our face for fear of getting in trouble. So listen to her. Get off the computer, talk to her, play with her, be silly with her. She is only...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 06:52:45 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by fixation</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Think of those of us that homeschool. My 3 kids are home all day, every day. lol! I'm sure you can't imagine being in my situation just as I couldn't imagine being in your's. ;-)  
  
 You only have to spend a few hours of time trying to get her to do homework or spend time with her, right? Take full ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 06:54:25 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by BuxomBrunette</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3113807-sooo-frustrated/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[As a mother of three high schoolers and an 11 year old going into middle <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> this fall the daddy and I have noticed this age is one of the hardest.  We found getting weekly grades like you are worked well once they realized we were serious about loss of privileges when the note didn't come home. ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 09:38:16 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Jadzia</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I think that if you sat with her while she did her homework it would make her feel as though you are more supportive of her.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 15:03:06 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by JTFeeliNBlues</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I'm pretty much going through the same thing...girls doing poorly in <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a>, but I hv a plan...nxt <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a> yr I'm going 2 create a schedule that will incorporate a series of high interest activities 4 her , that way i hv several things 2 take away in case she starts 2 go downhill in her grades. ;)  W...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 11:26:16 +0100</pubDate>
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