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		<title>Healthy Sex Advice: Feel weird...but have to ask - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>My first post, so kinda feeling weird. I have been trying to get my husband to &amp;quot;go down&amp;quot; on me for the past 9 1/2 years. He has ne...</description>
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			<title>Comment by mcar119</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm not sure.  9 1/2 years sounds like he's sticking to his guns.   
  
 But I do believe that you both are missing out.   
  
 Do you go down on him?  Well, if I were you I would be like no more....you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours... 
  
 Best of luck!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 18:34:44 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by frank26</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[sounds like a great guy! JK.  like Michelle said 9 1/2 years is a long time.  Honestly he should want to, and you are missing out.  Maybe he doesn't know how?  Does he tell you WHY he doesn't want to?  Maybe watch some porn together so he sees what it actually does to a woman.  I couldn't imagine NO...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 19:20:54 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by koolman</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Don't feel weird, hon, just ask.  I agree, he's really missing out!  I agree, some porn is in order.  He sounds very sweet and conservative, and that's fine, but, if you want this, it's time for him to "expand his horizons" so to speak.  Have fun!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 19:41:22 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by DanieLou</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the advice. And mcar119 yes I do give him bj...it is one of my ave things to do....I will try to stop untill he starts...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 20:07:13 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by BeyBey</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hey girl you snook in here on me. Hahahahaha anyways yeah I would tell him no more BJ's for him. He has to try before he knocks it. If he is concerned about smell. because some men have this fear. After your shower put on a good smelling lotion or perfume on your inner thighs. Good lucks and happy e...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 21:53:28 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by bvaluptuous13</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[It seems your husband is being very narrow-minded. Some guys are very peculiar about going down. My boyfriend will only do it after I take a shower/bath. I completely agree with his idea though because I will not him do it unless I take a shower first. But I would DEFINITELY cut off the BJ thing. It...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 00:52:38 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by nadiasmom</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[try to buy some edible panties.  if he likes strawberry, get some strawberry undies on.  they are really good if from the right place and could introduce him to your "place".  hehe!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 23:14:19 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by N2theLight</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Have you tried to get him right to the edge and then say something like "dear it is our turn...I'd really like for you.." 
  
 I do think he is being selfish.  Quite frankly I almost going down almost as much as sex.  I is a remarkable feeling to be able to have your SO going absolutely wild with just...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 17:21:14 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by N2theLight</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Sorry For The Typos ! 
 Have you tried to get him right to the edge and then say something like "dear it is your turn now...I'd really like for you.."  
  
 I do think he is being selfish. Quite frankly I enjoy going down almost as much as sex. It is a remarkable feeling to be able to have your SO goin...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 17:23:37 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mike08</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[not to be mean but no more bjs until he tries maybe he would watch someone else go down on you make sure you are trimmed down there i can do it forever then try some flavors down there also.he is not being fair to you]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 21:17:08 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by beanfields</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[when he is asleep, get up over him with a clean smelling kitten and straddle him..make some slow moaning noises even though he isn't doing anything yet,..DON'T SUFFOCATE HIM just,..be above him,..tee hee]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 13:48:22 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by RS269U</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[LOL Go beanfields!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 13:52:50 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by flutterbyfly</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Yeah, I hate to say it too, but it sounds like he's not giving on this one.  That sucks though!  Do you go down on him?  Thats not even fair if you do!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 14:10:30 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by brandyg</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[There is no way that I would continue givin him bj's if he wouldn't return the favor, EVER! 
  
 Unfortunately it sounds like that's his story and he's stickin!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 15:28:29 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by DanieLou</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[HE DID IT!!!!!!! OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE HE DID IT! Thanks guys, the with holding of bj worked!!HE DID IT!!!! WooooHoooo!!!!!!!!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 12:34:25 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by MissBlueToday</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[congradulations Danielou. I <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Hope">hope</a> that he enjoyed it as well.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 14:01:23 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by RS269U</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Hope">hope</a> it was good. I was going to suggest you spraying his favorite perfume on your panties or something. Something that wil get his face down there. Witholding a BJ always works though. LOL How a guy can not like licking pussy is beyond me. Hmmph!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 15:52:41 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by missfits</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Does he expect/like you to give him head?  I'm going to guess yes....so why does he get to enjoy oral and you don't?  Doesn't seem very fair to me.  However, you don't want it to feel forced, or else neither of you will enjoy it! 
  
 Has he heard you talk about getting oral from previous partners?  I...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 19:13:16 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by missfits</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Healthy_Sex/advice/3096596-feel-weirdbut-have-ask/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Ha...well I guess I was a little late to the party, but good for you! : )]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 19:13:51 +0100</pubDate>
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