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		<title>Parenting 'Tweens (9-12) Forum: Are we *REALLY*...listening!?!? - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>I think...most of our problems w/ our children begin bc ... were not really listening.  some of U may agree, some may not. B4 my son died in...</description>
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			<title>Comment by GillianneW</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Sorry about your losses.  
  
 I agree that we all too often say 'later' or 'in a minute' or 'in a wee while' when we don't mean it or just cant be bothered <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Listening" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Listening')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Listening">listening</a>. 
  
 I'm trying to get into the habit of stopping an <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Listening" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Listening')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Listening">listening</a> for a change.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 10:37:51 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by JTFeeliNBlues</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[THNX 4 ur reply, I really...need 2  work on tht still.  :)]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 11:02:54 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Thriver</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I think most of us do.  Thanks for posting this.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 17:02:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Jadzia</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I do try to listen to my two, I grew up with a Mentally Ill mother who would often put herself before me, I often felt unwanted and in the way. 
  
 This experience has made me the person I am today, what my children say is very important to me, they may be children but they still have plenty to say.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 18:28:01 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Brighteyes4u</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I have done this too many times lately. I have chronic migraines everyday and in severe pain from them. I am miserable. I am a single mom working a full time job with 2 children. It is tough and when they first started I often found myself saying "not now", "I don't feel good, maybe later" and so on...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 19:03:38 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by timmy18</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I realized that I do the same thing.  It's good to know I'm not the only one.  Thanks for sharing]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 17:40:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Samadian</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Wow. Thanks for sharing your story, JT. You are so strong!  
  
 What an inspiring post. I am going to listen to my son today. You've reminded me that when I take the time to open my heart and really listen to him, he always responds so well.  
  
 I think it's difficult because he's so moody. He might ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:34:42 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by JTFeeliNBlues</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Still having a hard time <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Listening" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Listening')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Listening">listening</a>...  I sort of tune ppl out...sad, I space out a lot...Could it b depression??  I feel happy :)  I think I'm still in shock for seeing my child die in my arms, twice.   
  
 : / ??]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 11:41:30 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Samadian</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I think it's impossible to listen ALL the time. We are human and being fully engaged every time your child speaks is impossible.  
  
 I'm trying to listen when I know he's really in need. Yesterday he came back from a bike ride and was so angry from an argument with a friend. He didn't know what to d...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 11:30:37 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by JTFeeliNBlues</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages_9-11_Tweens/forum/3032059-we-reallylistening/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Awesome...I will try that 2 !!!   :)]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 11:41:19 +0100</pubDate>
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