Wow - I did handle this
October 5, 2008 7:26pm
It hit me today that we're about a month short of the '1 year since the divorce' anniversary and I accomplished the things I wanted to. …
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bhamguy’s Profile
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About Me
Daily Strength got me through my toughest year (2007) when my wife of 11 years left me and our divorce completed. I can't thank those who supported me through all this enough. I'm keeping my profile open even though I'm moving on because of the great frienships I found here. If there's any way I can help someone going through what I did, please message me and I'll do my best to help.
Interests
I love being a dad and am thankful that I have my girls as much as I do. I do a lot of things with them (parks, zoo, movies) and am now working on my 'grownup hobbies. I'm taking more trips and getting outside more. I'm a Buckeye and Alabama football fan. I'm having fun making new friends and taking on life on my own terms.
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Recent Activity
Monday
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bhamguy replied to happy4me’s discussion post Giving in to divorce in the Breakups & Divorce support group 9:03am
Figure out if you miss the real him or if you miss your vision of what he was or should be like. That…
October 5
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bhamguy wrote a journal entry: Wow - I did handle this 7:26pm
It hit me today that we're about a month short of the '1 year since the divorce' anniversary…
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bhamguy gave Christye07 a Hug 7:20pm
I hope you found that monitor so your computer won't be flaky anymore! I'm doing well these days - all…
September 23
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bhamguy gave solongbye a Prayer 10:38pm
I hope things go ok tomorrow. I'll say a prayer for you tonight.…
September 20
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bhamguy replied to Britania’s discussion post Forcing yourself to date? in the Breakups & Divorce support group 11:48pm
You may not be ready to date with the idea of finding the love of your life, but maybe you could approach…
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Another step
September 14, 2008 11:03pm
I'm in my first exclusive relationship since the divorce. She's very kind and it's a pretty big change from how things were at the …
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WHERE ARE YOU??? I need techie help!!!
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Actually...it seemed to be the folks tower. So I switched theirs with mine and BAM! No more flakiness. Glad you are giddy! lol..(I can tell that you are)
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Thanks for your advice on my journal. You always show back up just when I need your words of wisdom! I don't know which is tougher -- trying to salvage a broken marriage or dating!
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Long time no hear. How are ya? Busy it seems..lol. Glad to see that everything is good with you. Always praying for ya!
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Good morning stranger! Haven't talked to you in ages. Hope all is well. I'm back at square one with everything so I can use all the support I can get :) Take care!
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Wife of 11 years said she didn't love me. After months of me trying & her not trying, we divorced (as of Nov 20, 2007).
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Her therapist is now encouraging the divorce 'while you're still friends'
- Love Working / Worked
- Postponed it, but hasn't been enough.
- Pets Working / Worked
- The dogs are getting left, too, so we're in this boat together.
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- DS rocks!
- Time Not Working
- We're slowly drifting apart
Close Single Dads
My wife is filing for divorce in the next month. We have 2 daughters and I expect to have 50% custody.
Open Healthy Relationships
Broken marriage. I don't want to have this happen again.
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