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Transgender identity includes many overlapping sub-categories. These include transsexual; cross-dresser; transvestite; consciously androgynous people; genderqueer; people who live ...
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Actually talking about my life is..really hard for...
MissNobody Oct 07, 2008
Tuesday, October 7, 2008 |
Actually talking about my life is..really hard for me to do. I am an independent person. I don't feel comfortable asking or accepting help. I'm stubborn. I am also a very unsure person. I have panic attacks just thinking about the effects my actions might possibly have. I also am the type of person who needs to be talking to other people about what'...
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after saturday nights shit that was spose to be a ...
princessl... Oct 06, 2008
Journal Entry for October 6, 2008
Monday, October 6, 2008 |
after saturday nights shit that was spose to be a night out things went horribly wrong, started when we were turned away from a club, on our journey back home my flat mate and his gf started arguing, so me and my ex gf sat in back of the car chatting, after the last couple of weeks we've got quite close again and started to see each other, all while she is with her new partner, well this isnt...1 Recommendation1 Comment -
right ok so ive been thinking about this for quite...
princessl... Oct 05, 2008
Journal Entry for October 5, 2008
Sunday, October 5, 2008 |
right ok so ive been thinking about this for quite a while now!, for those that have known me for quite a few years this is nothing new, for everyone else it is!
it all starts here im fed up of hiding behind a mask, and trying to be the person that everyone else wants me to be, some of you may think this is a wind up but i assure you that it isnt, ive got to a point in my life were at this mo...1 Recommendation -
lotsa shit happend against me.i went through my ow...
RobbieDeanne Oct 05, 2008
Sunday, October 5, 2008
lotsa shit happend against me.i went through my own personal armageddon.all hell broke loose.including my wireless network got fucked up but im back on now.thank you for sticking with me.love ya'sxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx1 Comment -
Wow a lot can happen in a day. I talked to some pe...
JustCass Oct 05, 2008
Sunday, October 5, 2008 |
Wow a lot can happen in a day. I talked to some people on this great myspace group called Genderwhat (http://groups.myspace.com/genderwhat) as well as on here and I felt secure enough to tell some more of my friends. The first responses I got were negative. They wanted to know why I couldn't just be happy crossdressing or going by my nickname which is already "guy enough". We ...1 Recommendation -
WELL, MY LITTLE MOMENT OF PEACE ON THE GENDER FRON...
inpaininc... Oct 04, 2008
Saturday, October 4, 2008 |
WELL, MY LITTLE MOMENT OF PEACE ON THE GENDER FRONT IS NOW OVER. MAYBE I AM FOOLING MYSELF, BUT IT SEEMED LIKE THERE WAS A LITTLE DIFFERENCE ABOUT THE LATEST MOMENT OF QUIET, LIKE SOMETHING FUNDAMENTAL HAD CHANGED. NOW THAT THE STRUGGLE IS BACK, I AM NO LONGER SURE, BUT IT STILL SEEMS LIKE SOMETHING IS DIFFERENENT NOW. IT REMAINS TO BE SEEN WHAT EXACTLY THIS DIFFERENCE MEANS TO THIS STRUGGLE, BUT...1 Recommendation1 Comment -
Wow, I think I kind of underestimated how it would...
JustCass Oct 04, 2008
Saturday, October 4, 2008 |
Wow, I think I kind of underestimated how it would make me feel. I just recently came out trans and nowhere close to telling my family who I stay with while I'm in college. They were on their way out the door and asked flippantly if I'd go to the grocery store to pick up some things while I was away. Yesterday I bought some Ace bandages so I figured it was as good a time as any to see how...1 Recommendation -
Well my husband announced to me he is going to try...
Tearful27 Oct 03, 2008
Friday, October 3, 2008 |
Well my husband announced to me he is going to try and give up crossdressing as he can also see how much it is comng between us. I am quite happy about this but i know there will be times when it wll be tough and he will prob give in. but I am going to work out a plan this afternoon but would quite like some help with it from anyone so they can give me advice on how to do it if they are crossdres...1 Recommendation2 Comments -
If I have seemed negative to anyone's p...
MelRaeand... Oct 03, 2008
Friday, October 3, 2008 |
If I have seemed negative to anyone's post's lately, believe me, I haven't meant too. The last thing I want to do is hurt anyone. We are supposed to be helping each other right? I just have a way of saying blunt things sometimes that come across as harsh, when they are simply meant to try to spare someone of the pain, that I have personally experienced. My replies are not just ...1 Recommendation -
Volcano Love Before I met you my heart was li...
XxJessyexX Oct 03, 2008
Writings from my website feel free to coment
Friday, October 3, 2008 |
Volcano Love Before I met you my heart was like an extinct volcano. On the first day I met you the villagers ran at the site of my smoke. For when you kissed me for the first time, I erupted and have been an actively smoking volcano ever since.
When you and I are apart it feels like the earth has split in two and thrown us to different parts of the world. Trying so hard to come back to each o...1 Recommendation1 Comment -
i need some advice or comments--i dont care if the...
paatuncfan Oct 02, 2008
Thursday, October 2, 2008 |
i need some advice or comments--i dont care if they are good or bad, please
i just cant take this much stress right now without cutting; it's a sad fact, but that's how i handle it kind of.
the problem is, both my arms are already scarred up really bad and i have shit healing there from last week, so i dont think i can cut along it; i dont know?
im going to the store to get new razors right ...1 Recommendation7 Comments -
white20blue Oct 02, 2008
Journal Entry for October 2, 2008
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Tuesday, October 7, 2008 |
Actually talking about my life is..really hard for me to do. I am an independent person. I don't feel comfortable asking or accepting help. I'm stubborn. I am also a very unsure person. I have panic attacks just thinking about the effects my actions might possibly have. I also am the type of person who needs to be talking to other people about what'...1 Recommendation1 Comment -
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I focus on the pain, the only thing that is REAL. I hurt myself today.1 Recommendation4 Comments
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I was reading through some old journals from 2003 and 2004 last night and was amazed at the things I was reading, well except for the fact that my waist is now 1 and a half inches bigger and I am 5 to 7 pounds heavier! Uggggg time to take action there too! ;) Any way I hope this gives some one the cofidence they need with in their own struggle to be free!
Love Jami.......1 Recommendation3 Comments
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"IT EVER HAS BEEN SINCE TIME BEGANAND EV...
Optigirl Apr 03, 2008
Fav poem - written early 1900s/Author unknown
Thursday, April 3, 2008
"IT EVER HAS BEEN SINCE TIME BEGAN
AND EVER WILL BE, TILL TIME LOSE BREATH
THAT LOVE IS A WORD, NO MORE ...TO MAN
BUT LOVE TO A WOMAN
IS LIFE OR DEATH."3 Recommendations1 Comment -
Volcano Love Before I met you my heart was li...
XxJessyexX Oct 03, 2008
Writings from my website feel free to coment
Friday, October 3, 2008 |
Volcano Love Before I met you my heart was like an extinct volcano. On the first day I met you the villagers ran at the site of my smoke. For when you kissed me for the first time, I erupted and have been an actively smoking volcano ever since.
When you and I are apart it feels like the earth has split in two and thrown us to different parts of the world. Trying so hard to come back to each o...1 Recommendation1 Comment -
Another I wrote to my ex before we broke u...
JeffAndrew Aug 05, 2008
Tuesday, August 5, 2008 |
Another I wrote to my ex before we broke up.
Courage to BE
Do not turn to be comfortable in your old ways
The wide road always leads to destruction
Think about taking the narrow road instead
Embrace the difficulty that cleanses your spirit
And frees your soul from living blind and shallow
Live as if tomorrow would be your last day
Live trying to minimize regrets, once
you are on your death...1 Recommendation1 Comment -
This one, I also wrote to my ex befo...
JeffAndrew Aug 05, 2008
Tuesday, August 5, 2008 |
This one, I also wrote to my ex before we broke up.
The True Light
Selfishness
Self-centeredness
And
Vanity,
Will never be successful fillers of hearts
Just Egos
Or, quick fixes to wounds that never healed right
It is through the power of love alone
Even in human imperfection
When it is looked at, and
When is deep and sincere
That can soothe and heal
All insecurities and
Past pains
The sense that
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This is part of what I wrote to my ex before we ...
JeffAndrew Aug 05, 2008
Tuesday, August 5, 2008 |
This is part of what I wrote to my ex before we broke up.
Remember
Remember, that love is perfect and we are not.
Remember, to fight for the love that resides in our hearts
I am worn out, disillusioned, and hopeless.
I am all cut up, and
Falling down
A big dark cylinder
With
Nothing to hold on to
Yet,
What hurts me more
Is the pain I carry
Deep in my chest
Because love
Was not given a chance
Was not g...1 Recommendation1 Comment -
Thank You In stillness, I listen In awe I r...
JeffAndrew Sep 23, 2008
Tuesday, September 23, 2008 |
Thank You
In stillness, I listen
In awe I receive the blessing
It lifts me, strengthens me
As my faith was fading
There is a torch of fire
Piercing through my heart
Warming my spirit
You extend your hand
No, not giving me hope
That was not enough
But showing me
How true love feels
Giving me the peace
The steadiness
To stand up, to live again
The light inside of me
You did not let die
The fervor and the passi...1 Recommendation -
i had written this on my quizzilla account a while...
krischaos Jul 28, 2008
Monday, July 28, 2008 |
i had written this on my quizzilla account a while back, some of it has to do with me and some of it is what happened to one of my friends.
MAMA couldnt see the pain i boar
MAMA only saw a fucking whore
MAMA said i stole papa away
MAMA wouldnt even let me go and play
PAPA stole the one thing dear to me
PAPA stole my pride and dignity
PAPA made me cry each day
PAPA took my joy away
MAMA and PAPA were drun...1 Recommendation -
so much changed and undone..So much so hard so muc...
carrielost Jun 30, 2008
Monday, June 30, 2008 |
so much changed and undone..
So much so hard so much undone..
life isnt easy never is..
Changed the face, body and mind. Became something unwinded.
Shaven and clean make up gleams and compliments begin. The artist unseen. Me..
Wife untold noyone knows.
Seeing is believing and believing it is another game.
unto a plane rarely seen..
What can gleam is beautiful, gorgeous..
Problems arise as all is a surpri...1 Recommendation -
It is almost eroticThe way that lips are slightly ...
DeathByDe... Jun 14, 2008
Kisses from Red Lips - poss trigger
Saturday, June 14, 2008 |
It is almost erotic
The way that lips are slightly parted,
Moist and scarlett red
Anticipation obvious
In the prospect of company.
Tingling rush
Flooding everywhere
Bringing a hot flush
To smooth cheeks.
Sensations running wild
From head to toe
And everywhere in between.
Breath catches
Deep inside next to the heart
Shuddering out harshly.
Rough cloth
Scrapes over hardening nipples
Skin taut with desire,
Getting ha...1 Recommendation -
Queen of Hearts Am I the Queen of Hear...
beaula May 30, 2008
Friday, May 30, 2008 |
Queen of Hearts
Am I the Queen of Hearts?
I feel like the Queen of Hearts, but
I don’t look like her.
My breast are small my voice is deep.
Sometime I feel like the Jack of Clubs.
Looking masculine pains me.
Black course stubble haunts my face,
Like an unforgiving black plague.
In my veins runs blood red as the Queens of hearts.
In my head run thoughts of a Queen,
But my body looks like a clu...1 Recommendation -
Silence, nothing is to be heard but the windSilenc...
TearzOfMy... Mar 04, 2008
Tuesday, March 4, 2008 |
Silence, nothing is to be heard but the wind
Silence, your voice is a whisper not to be heard
In a land far away layed a dream
that can only be imagined, never seen
There was a garden filled with may flowers
but one stood out above all
The Black Rose, in the mist of several others
While every other one, bright cheery red
The Black Rose stood in the center, as if dead
For what would bring about this weary ...1 Recommendation -
Out the door Just in time Headin' down the 4...
CasualFriday Mar 01, 2008
Saturday, March 1, 2008 |
Out the door
Just in time
Headin' down the 405
Gotta meet the new boss by 8 am
The phone rings in the car
The wife is workin hard
She's runnin late tonight again
Well I know what I’ve been told
You've gotta work to feed the soul
But I can’t do this all on my own
No I know
I’m no superman
I’m no superman
You've got your love online
You think you're doin fine
But you&...1 Recommendation
Fav poem - written early 1900s/Author unknown
Thursday, April 3, 2008
"IT EVER HAS BEEN SINCE TIME BEGAN
AND EVER WILL BE, TILL TIME LOSE BREATH
THAT LOVE IS A WORD, NO MORE ...TO MAN
BUT LOVE TO A WOMAN
IS LIFE OR DEATH."3 Recommendations1 Comment -
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