Transgender identity includes many overlapping sub-categories. These include transsexual; cross-dresser; transvestite; consciously androgynous people; genderqueer; people who live ...
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I just discovered that my soon-to-be-ex-husband is soliciting relationships with crossdressers via the internet, and i'm utterly confused about this 'hidden' side of his personality. Looking back now, I'm looking for signs that maybe he tried to tell me of his interest, but i find just 2moments in time. During our 18yrs together, he slipped on my silky panties only twice (that I know of), and I was cool with it, but I wonder now if he wasn't trying to tell me he 'needed' that, and maybe more.
Anyway, as you can see from my Profile page, we've been separated for 7months now, mainly because he suffers from chronic Depression which he refuses medical treatment on and is thus not contributing to our marriage & partnership for LONG periods of time, and he took up with a girlfriend (that he's still with) prior to moving out of our home. I didn't find out about her until after he left, but I now see that his relationship with her contributed to his sabotaging our relationship at the end. All this, ON TOP OF placing ads seeking m4m crossdressers for casual encounters and time at home together. Is he sex-starved? and or bi-curious? or what? (he doesn't know how much I know, and so we haven't had discussion on it yet, but I WANT to understand how these unadressed topics have affected the demise of our marriage) Can ANYONE HERE ..... PLEASE!!......help me make some sense of all this?? I really want to know about why a man wants to be with crossdressing males, what pleasure they get from it, what's likely to be revealed next (if there is such a 'progression'), and what I might be able to expect next in all this confusion. I'm genuinely and sincerely blindsided, and am anxiety-ridden in what's gonna be the next 'shocker' about him that I find out. PLEASE HELP by sharing your thoughts. I really need help from those who understand these issues Posted on 05/12/08, 10:05 am |
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To really get an understanding of it I'd need to ask some more personal things. I think it is the depression and maybe sexual boredom/repression of sexual desires. Though I highly doubt the wearing of you panties, unless he did it ALOT, means anything.
It may even be a cry for help. Issues like this are delicate. Thats about all i can offer you. 
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