Transgender Support Group

Im a crossdresser and by and have been that way for as long as i can reamber and talking is not easy at least for me . this a trust thing . when you have hid your feelings and clothes and purged and throwen everything away and tried to forget your feelings . and not told any one about how you feel and triditionaly most gay men dont want a queen and wemon dont want a queen either. the trust thing comes into play you just keep hideing who you realy are and burrying that side of you with walls so people cant see who you realy are . and you show them who they want to see so you dont get hurt or outed as a compleet freek .which i am thank you and love it
when you find some one you are verry cautious to tell them anything and in the words of mi girlfriend of 4 yrs the walls are storng and high and getting through thenm is verry verry difficult to get over or through and being constintly rebult from habbit not that we dont trust you in my thouths we are protecting you from us

well talking is the key dont stop and pursew it constantly in a way your talking to 2 people the man and the women Its like a split personality thing almost if you can emagion it if that makes any since
good luck

I have been a crossdresser since I was about 8 or so, and I don't think that your husband is bi. I think that he's just looking for somebody to understand him. I told my wife (we've been together 2 years and married for 1 of them) when we were engaged, and that was the end of it. Just within the last week, out of nowhere we switched underwear for a day and it turned her on alot. Long story short, she understands now. We haven't gotten any sleep lately lol due to bedroom activities and just her asking me about 200 questions and I try to answer them. It's brought us together by letting loose both of our inhibitions, we tried other new stuff too, and it just feels like we have nothing to hide ever again and our emotional intimacy level has skyrocketed. Leave me a message, I and my wife, Brandi734, would love to talk and share feelings about it with you!

My husband and I dated for two years and then we were married for one. I knew he was bisexual at the beginning of our relationship, but it never was an issue. I was comfortable with his feminine tendencies, etc. He was comfortable being my husband for a while. In the last month or so he started to have a breakdown and cheated on me with an older man and then got into an internet relationship with a different younger man. I have moved out and have started to seek a divorce so that we may move on with our lives. I support my soon to be ex husband fully with what he's going through, but the emotional connection that I had with him got damaged, sadly. I can relate to what you're going through because of the feeling of "relief" you had with finding out that it was something else that he wanted, etc. My want to be supportive of him finding himself is clashing with my love for him as we had signed up to love each other and only each other. I'm free to talk, if you're willing. Just know that you're not alone and that things will be okay no matter what happens. Try to be supportive of your husband as he is going through a difficult time, also. It would be easiest to talk about the issue as friends instead of lovers. Take more time, thought, and caution when dealing with yourselves as a married couple. Good luck!