Teen Sexuality Support Group

Sex is so over-rated, first time for me HURT LIKE HELL and i nearly cried. I was with my boyfriend 2months but we'd been seeing eachother for about 5, we took it slow. Make sure (if you do) that he doesn't just JAB.
I don't advise you do lose it though. Find someone you really want to give your virginity to.

^^ She makes a really, really good point. My first time was also very, very painful. I was with a guy who respected me and cared enough to go really slow, and it was still hurt miserably. I can't even imagine what it would have been like with someone that didn't care and shoved it in there just to get himself off.

I also really like how she put it... Give your virginity away, don't just lose it. Too many people are just in a huge damn hurry to be a "non-vigrin", and I was in that group as well. I consider myself very lucky, because it turned out that the guy was wonderful, but I didn't know that at the time (we had sex like the 2nd or 3rd time we saw each other).

Like yourself, I just wanted to lose my virginity so bad that I was ready to take the next guy that came along. I'm so, so thankful that the next guy was a good one. I don't regret my decision to sleep with him, but part of me wishes that I would've waited longer. That's a whole 'nother story though that I'll tell upon request (o:

yeah dont rush it. im 19 years old and have only slept with one year out of 2 past girlfriends in the past 2 years. but i later found that she used me for sex to get over her ex bf before me. didnt make me feel to good about myself