Teen Sexuality Support Group

i feel the same way and i wish i even had a guy that just wanted sex but its probably a really bad idea, afterwards i no ull regret it,i no its really hard to wait but since its the first time ull never forget it and im sure u want it to be with someone memorable, hope that helps:)

of course it helps.. thank you for the reply.. i just always think "ok im going to wait for the right guy to come along" and i get all motivated to wait but then i think i'll never find that guy.

yeah i no how it is, i find it ok for some one to have sex before marriage but im a 14 year old girl who really wants sex so what do i no?:) i think maybe u can find the right guy before marriage but just make sure u dont do it with some jerk who will just completely use u, hold back as much as possible i no u can do it!!!!!!!

thank you.. yuor support means a lot to me

i would wait , till u found somebody special .i thought the guy i lost it to really cared about me but he didnt and my heart was broken i gave him something i can never get back ,and know that i meet that special guy i fell bad i didnt wait . im just giveing u my story as something to think about , but do what u feel is right and be smart about it plz.

Okay to be honest I am not a virgin and well before I lost my virginity everyone else was loosing theirs and I thought I would be cool it I lost mine so well...I met some guy at a party and well just did it. The morning after I felt so guilty I mean just to think I lost my virginity to someone I didn't even know and I put myself at rish for an STD and Pregnancy so it deffinitly not worth trying to raise my popularity level.

To be honest I would just wait until you find that one special person in your life and you know that you could trust that person.

I dont think you will be ok. Usually the guy you lose your virginity to you have an attachment cause he was your first for that. That is a special moment. It should mean something not just to satisfy your needs. Thats using him and letting him use you. I really dont think its right.Most people who go off and have sex with a guy just to have it end up regretting for a long time cause later on they meet the right guy who is a virgin or something and they wish they had waited but ya know they didnt. It can turn out devasting. YOu have your whole life tohave sex theres no need to rush it

make sure u do want sex, rather than just masturbation. If you do want to keep it for sum1 special then dnt just rush into it cos ur horny.

thank you guys for all of your replies... i've realized that its wrong to want to lose my virginity just to satisfy my needs, and i want to wait until the perfect time