Teen Sexuality Support Group

i can relate to that, my ex bf everytime we was togeather he was soo nice but when his friends came up he ignored me. and when i would walk off he would call me that night asking were i wen and i told him and he said "well they are my friends i just cant ignore them" and i told him yeah and im ur gf. but so i dumpped him after he kept it up.. some guys can be real jerks.!

Some guys are too immature to be themselves, so go with what they think will be seen well by other guys, when they are around. It is a masculine thing.

Do they eventually grow out of it? Not that I am planing to wait for that.

I want to specifify that he is in the poplar group and am not...not that I WANT TO BE popular because I don't. I don't like to be a fakie and whatever else becomes with being popular.

Sorry I meant that I DON'T WANT TO BE POPULAR.

thats quite common. it comes with peer pressure. generally as ppl age they bcum more uncarung towards how they act around there mates.

Yes, they grow out of it eventually.

My bf treats me the same way with his friends or in public as he does when we're one-on-one. The guy has got to be comfortable with himself and not be putting on an act for anyone. You're 17? Yeah, believe me, it can be hard to find guys mature enough-- I'm almost 20 and I can't stand most of the guys my age!

i believe that is what is known as fake people. yeah it sucks.i dont get why most guys do that

Yeah I keep wanting to yell at him for it but it seems that he is just avoiding me. I really don't care about him too much anymore. Anyway I have talked to a work friend of his her is a Mom herself about it. She told him and she said that he said he is just really busy with Hockey. I don't know what he means cause I have learned to trust guys like him less and less. I decided that I would let my anger at him clear and upfront so I don't regret not doing it to him later...regardless of wether he decides to repent or not. If he doesn't I'll know that he was never worth it in the first place.

Well I have finally heard from him. He said that he agreed that we shouldn't care about what people think. He said that he was just busy with hockey and with school and that I had nothing to worry about. He was really nice to me too! I will still air on the side of caution though for now because I don't want anything like that to happen to me again. I have had it happen to me twice before. The first guy I kind of let him walk all over me since I had low self-esteem and the second guy I just simply stopped talking to him because it was early enough in the relationship and I was starting (and still am) to get my self-esteem back. I don't want it to happen a third time to me without me letting the guy know how I feel and what a jerk and idiot he is. I just hope this guy is worth it.

Thanks for all your replies!

Yours Truly,
Shamrock593