Teen Sexuality Support Group

only do it if ur absolutely sure u hav to be positive tho n it sonds to me like he just wants a lay if he hooked up with u b4 n had sex b4

if you're asking other people about it you're not sure. wait until you're positive.

Only if u REALLY like him i say go for, no regrets

make sure he's clean, no STD's and use a condom and geton the pill, cause it only takes once to get pregnant.

Ok first i think you should wait. at 4 months you are in puppy love i waited a year my first time and iam unfortunatly not with the person although we dated for 2 years. i dont regret it because i know i loved her when i gave it up. make sure its love not lust on either end

If you can't so much as spell the word 'virgin', you're probably not at an age to make such a socially stressed decision.
But if you don't care much about your virginity, which I didn't (It it shouldn't be that big of a deal) then go ahead and do what nature tells you to do. Fuck ahoy! Just use protection, yeah? A lot of guys say they don't get off with a condom on- don't buy that shit unless you're taking the pill or other means of birthcontrol.

Virginity may not be the central issue; once a person decides to enter into a sexual relationship with someone, this tends to create a giant leap forward in the relational intimacy. It's important to understand that 'intimacy' is far more than just physical, it's also emotional, intellectual, and spiritual as well. The problem is, intimacy (in all it's forms) is quite often very subjective...meaning: one person may experience the intimacy, while the other does not.

The best relationships have the intellectual, emotional and spiritual FIRST, only then followed by the physical....sex (choosing to end your virginity) is just a vehicle for expressing the first three intimacies in a special way. As such, the sex will not necessarily bring the first three intimacies into the relationship if they are not already there.

So: ask yourself these questions: Can I share important ideas with my special friend? Are we O.K. with each other when we disagree? Can we share deep emotions together? Can my special friend cry in front of me? Is there a spiritual connection? Can you pray together?

~iha

i think that if u love him than there will be no regrets ....... it depends tho if he is tryin to make u have sex than hhe just wants some and his main concern isnt being in love with u .. but if he hasnt been asking and ur thinking about it that mabey it isnt a bad idea