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Okay, so I had this friend. Well, we almost dated but I didn't want to date anyone. So basically he never really wanted to be friends with me after that. Before things got awkward he used to be there for me and talk to me. And after things got awkward he wouldn't talk to me.

So I was having a really crappy night and I was so upset that I left my house. I was driving with the windows down, Flyleaf blasting, speeding, and screaming till my voice was gone just because I was so upset and needed to get my emotions out. Well, I texted him and told him that I really needed to talk. Well, he never texted back, so I figure that he hadn't looked at his phone, so I called. Well, he rejected my call and then texted and said he didn't want to talk. I was so furious that he would ditch me like that and not be there for me.

Also, whenever he was upset, I listened to him and actually cried with him. But he wasn't there for me.

Well the other day he told me that he was tired of me being so dependent on him and stuff and told me to not text or call him. So, at first I was really really upset because he was my so called friend. But then I realized, why should I care? He wasn't even there for me when I needed him. He always took but never gave. And besides that, he just acted like I was a nuisance to him because I wouldn't go out with him. I just basically realized that I am tired of people calling themselves my friend, but then only taking from me and never being there for me.

Does anyone else have this problem or what? I just don't understand, because I am pretty sure that I am not a pushover, and it just pisses me off when people act like they are your friend and then they ditch you when you need them...
Posted on 07/05/08, 02:07 am
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Reply #1 - 07/05/08  10:47pm
" welcome to my life. Okay so like the big thing here is that he probably just doesn't know how to handle you [no offense]. My ex girlfriend WILL NOT come near me because she says my anxiety isnt a real problem and is impossible to deal with. I'm really proud of you for sticking by your friend when he needed you. Give it time, talk ti out with him. If he needs instruction on how to help you when you're anxious frustrated angry whatever give ti to him. People have a tendency to not deal with what they're afraid of. If you ever need more advice, I' be here:] "
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