Teen Sexuality Support Group

its a choice u make urself. bi or not. how about step out a lil bit, ask a guy u may have a crush on out on a date. make it special. if he says no, or wateva, dont be hurt ae. iv never been kissed, struggle with eating disorders, have questioned myself about being bi. i decided im not, and yea, im not. but hey. dont be afraid of sex w/ men, u dont have to if u dont wat to. xo

Expiriment. Ask out a guy, see how being with him makes you feel...ask out a girl and see how being with her makes you feel. And listen to your gut feelings. You might find that it feels more right with one of the sexes, or both...and from there you might figure out what you really are. But yeah, I'd say my biggest advice to you is just expiriment with both.

Considering you're born either gay or straight, you can be born bisexual as well. It just usually takes people a lot longer time to come to terms with it.

When it comes right down to it, I think it is natural for people to be attracted to both genders, and the social pressure to deny this has many people pent up with repressed emotions. People are attractive, some physically, some interpersonally.... and there is nothing wrong with recognizing that you get a good feeling in the presence of a person, regardless of their gender. What matters is how you act on it. Ultimately, if you desire to have a family, then it would be wise to make your priority be such that no matter how many people you are attracted to, you only act on the attraction to your partner. Its so sad when people jump quickly into parenthood with someone who isn't suited for them in the long term. If you believe there is ONE person for you, perfectly suited, then just try to be patient as that unfolds, and don't concern yourself with labels.

If you sense inside of you that you are afraid of sex with men, don't let that fear be a driving force to send you into bed with women. Just because women are safe and comfortable in your mind doesn't mean that you need to embrace that lifestyle. Sometimes a healthy fear is a good thing, and it might be keeping you out of wrong situations, who knows. What matters isn't whether you have a fear of men in general, but the one person that you are to spend your life with... that person will calm your fears, you will feel reassured and secure... thats the whole basis of a loving committed relationship. You won't have that with everyone, but there is someone who is right for you, and you will find it there. patience.

imagine your future. how do you see yourself? its normal to have curiousities and want to explore different things and options, but if you take a moment to just imagine your life at 55... close your eyes...

you can definitly be bi all your life.
i have been.
but when it comes down to it its however you choose to live you life.

and it sounds like you need a little more experience with just about everything before you should really make a decision.
but thats just my opinion.
its all up to you in the end.

thank you all SOSOSOSOSO much for your help i really appreciate your opinions. :D

everyone is bisexual..it just differs in ratios b:g. i am bi, bt only by a 90:10 ratio (g:b). i am similar in that i hav neva dun much with any1, bt it is ur choice. just find sum1 u hav a crush on; and ask them out. see where it goes, if u feel comfortable, let it go where u want. if nt, dnt do anythin u may regret cos u want to hav sumthing.