Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) Support Group

YOu can call the medical examiner and ask for the status... at least we were able to.

Oh my gosh, 9 months is a VERY VERY long time. You could call; the coroner (thats who I talked to at least). However I got mine so so so quickly- within weeks- and I was too scared so I waited a few more weeks b/c I was just too anxious and nervous. Sooo... Maybe it is good or ok that it took this long as it gave you a chance to heal a bit and get slightly better- I know that we never get "over" this, but time may have helped. Anyways I would say to call; the ME or cororner. Good Luck. And remember either end of the spectrum is not pleasant. I got my results so so soon that I do not feel I was ready yet and didnt order the official report till just over a month after I got off the phone (when they told me basically what it sai, and the results). It was too hard so I kept putting it off. I guess the middle road would be best, but maybe we are opposite ends of the spectrum. It caused too much heartache and pain to hear it a week later, you know? anyways goood luck, and my advice ius to call the coroner, but alos that time allows you to be more ready and handle it better! GL! Were here 100%!!!!!

call or go down there, squeaky wheel gets the grease, so to speak. Of course be as sweet as pie when you do....