Single Dads Support Group

Is there any possible way you can get your own place? I understand if not, I'm living with parents while I attend college this year. It's hard enough to balance work and time with children, but as parents we should be able to enjoy an adult life outside our children. I'd suggest going out with single friends once a week if parents can watch son while he sleeps. DO NOT bring a woman into your son's life until you can trust that she can be a stable healthy influence. Feel free to date again, there are plenty of good women out there that find it touching to see a responsible father. Best of luck to you.

if you have full custody of your son, that's a serious blessing and honor I wish I could have. As far as the women thing, you're clearly talking to the wrong women. if they think full custody is an issue as well, you're regrouping while you're living with your parents, that isn't so bad. Fact is, could you be poss. projecting your ill feelings for your ex when you talk to these women that they don't think poss. you're over her? Lastly, getting that once a week time out is good, but don't think of yourself as alone, you're far from it. you have a gift in front of you, and before you know it, you'll have all the time in the world to yourself. you have a full life ahead of you.

I have to agree with reply #2. You are seriously catching the wrong fish. It takes a real man to be able to regroup and handle his business. You have a son to worry about. You need to take care of him and you first and the right woman will come along. Trust me on this one.

Just remember that the grass all ways seems greener on the other side.

Man take your time in meeting and finding a woman. Join a gym or go to the libary heck there are tons of places to meet women. You can also try meetup.com for getting out and meeting people.

Please don't rush or settle on the first women or woman you meet. take your time hell you already been alone for three years whats a few more months in getting to know someone.

I remember a saying " it's not wanting what you can't have it's wanting what you have is the key" so take your time keep you little one close and the primary thing in your life.

Hope this helps man

Hi there tried to post this yesterday but it didn't save.

I am living the same way. Guys find out I have a son and I don't see them for dust. I live in hope that one day I'll find a guy who can handle it.

You'll find a woman who will deserve to be part of you and your sons lives and when she comes along she will be worth it.

It might be worth trying to get a place of your own for your own independance.

But to be honest if the fact that your living with your parents is turning these women off it's because they are very shallow women.

Good Luck finding the right woman!!!!!!!

Lots of Love Gillianne xxxx

and remember if she's the right one she'll love your son too.