What is Sexual Abuse

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I feel like I just have to say it, even if no one will listen. I've told people, but they said because he couldn't finish it, it wasn't rape. Yet, I have nightmares, every night, about what he did to me. I know I can't change anything, but he's saying that he is going to get me again, I finish it this time. I can't tell anyone, I have no one that would listen. I'm just so lost, I don't know what more I can do.
Posted on 05/14/08, 12:05 am
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Reply #1 - 05/14/08  6:05am
" Have you reported the attack to police?
Listen, your voice does count, your inner and outter voice counts. You, only you knows what happened to you. If it was any type of force, unwanted touches, "a go" against your "no" - then it was sexual assault. Do you talk to a therapist? Talking to a professional always helps to process things thru.
I have hope for you that things will work out for you "
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Reply #2 - 05/14/08  7:18am
" If he is threatening this I would get an order out against him that he can be served with. That way he will know that you will not take his behaviour without consequences being there for him. In my opinion if he tried but didnt e********* it is still rape. "
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Reply #3 - 05/14/08  7:34am
" Talk to anyone who will listen. Are you still in school,if so talk to a teacher,nurse,and anyone you can get to. I have a child almost your age. I tell him if something happens to you and you can't talk to me find someone you can talk to, anyone. "
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Reply #4 - 05/14/08  10:25am
" i cant report it to the police and i cant tell anyone
he knows things about me
plus no one would believe me
i know i say i cant a lot
but if i told someone there would be harsh consequences for me "
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Reply #5 - 05/14/08  10:39am
" My heart aches for you! I know it seems tough... "finished" or not you were raped. Please talk to someone, anyone, even if it is not the police...

What ever you have done, it is not worth being raped! "
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Reply #6 - 05/14/08  12:03pm
" still rape.. if he was inside...

having that kind of threat is no joke.. you should report him to the police... i wish you had someone to protect you... then again..none of use would be here id if we had that "
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Reply #7 - 05/14/08  12:34pm
" if you can't report him or tell anyone then you need to find a way to leave the situation. "
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Reply #8 - 05/14/08  5:45pm
" ive told like 3 people
no1 believes me
and i dont see how i can get out of the situation im only 17 i cant just move away or anything
i know its just excuses
but i really dont see wat i can do "
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Reply #9 - 05/14/08  6:49pm
" Listen, I'm concerned for you. Know there is a way out, if you have that one little ounce of hope than there is, and I believe you do b/c you sought out this group and I believe God is making a way for you - That's His job to make a way out of know way. I don't mean to preach to you but the support you're receiving from this group proves that there are people out there who not only care for you but believe you. I have hope for you that you will make it through. I am praying for you. "
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