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Let's get honest for a moment, with Your Ideas...it's sooooooo easy to see things for others, but when it hits home, That is another story....
First, my ex husband and I are friends and we help each other in time of need. Asked him the other day, if he wanted me to take care of him in his older age.....he said we would NEVER be able to get along..... That's why I asked......because instead of wasting time on a man who feels comfortable as friends but is not willing to 'take care of me'....there is no need to give up my freedom and my time where there is a Possibility that there could be Romantic Love left for me in Life..... ******************************************* I am flirting OUTRAGEOUSLY with a man online at PlentyofFish.....he is 44 yrs. old, 15 yrs. younger than I am, and is very direct yet respectful if his desires of wanting me.....the SAD thing is, he probably more than anyone has interested me..... It would not be a Permanent thing, but y'all....have been Divorced for Seven Years and have had Sex only during One Weekend..... I am still passionate but want this time to be Special......what's to keep this from NOT being Special with a 44 year old man.......?? Help me now, I am getting weaker by the moment..... Posted on 06/26/07, 08:06 am |
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I fought the age difference thing all my life and finally the universe conspired against me and won. My special man is almost 8 years younger, has shown me more respect than any other man, has treated me gently and sensuously yet speaks directly in the most soft-spoken tone I've ever heard in my life. The ex-husband was 5 years older, self-serving, crude, rude and continually unfaithful. I used to say "THIS I will NOT do" (rob the craddle)and that's when I finally took the leap of faith. Go for it Sadin as we can never know what the journey has in store. Don't be sad something ended but rather be happy that it happened. Permanent or not. 
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THANK You for that answer.......it's Good to hear from others, because this is something that will be a REAL First for me.....so far, have several men on PoF that I am 'getting to know'...
but this man.....he cut to the chase and beat me at my own game.....it's his directness yet cuteness/sexiness/whatever that I like... I can't see this being a Permanent thing....but haven't exactly pushed the thought out of my Mind, either... as you can tell...... this is why I seek Input......
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Nothing in life is ever permanent. People die, they get divorced or just break-up. I've been through plenty - two grown children - different fathers both dead. Put up with a 28 year abusive marriage then he left. Was raked over the coals by a Moroccan man. Had a wonderful romance with a Brazilian man (lost his visa). And yet I am still of the belief to enjoy the moment. Enjoy the dance. If you worry about how it's going to end you will miss it. Who knows it might be the dance of a lifetime. Only time will tell and you'll never know if you don't give it a try. Good Luck
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Sad, how long have you been corresponding with this man. The age difference does not concern me at all. It's how you "met" him. I met my X online 10 yrs. ago. He was the most charming charismatic man I had ever met. He wooed me, mesmerized me, paid so much attention to me that I thought I was the only woman in the world. I married him ...found out he had a wife in another city...got that marriage anulled and he charmed me again. This time he was divorced so I married him again. Turned out my prince was a habitual liar, cheater and he began beating me 4 yrs into our marriage. His emotional abuse towards me was so abrasive and effective that I was convinced he was doing what was needed. I lost myself....If you don't KNOW this man, stay away from him. A few hours of passionate love-making is not worth it. Stop looking...let God bring Mr. Wonderful into your life.
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Honey, so far, nothing SAD about this guy!!............;-)
Nothing Sad at all....that is why I have this Dilemma...... I haven't agreed to meet ANY of the men from online......only one has my phone number..... I am checking things out,though,and am looking at various options....... I have not agreed to meet this young man......from the pictures he showed me last night, he is the kind that I have always had a thing for.... He really is Sweet!! Went back and copied & Pasted all our email contact, so I can go back and scrutinize........ Some have told me WAIT, others say to go for it!! It's all very new to me......guess that is why I am asking for input....... I KNOW that my sexual drive is High right now, and he isn't helping matters..... Anyone else, any ideas??????
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PS.........this guy is HOT.....do you hear me?????? HOT!! Do you know how many HOT guys there are my age?
Ladies, all the good looking ones are married or GAY......that's what a friend told me.... No one said TEMPTATION was Easy, you know.... :(
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Hey girl, I'm only saying to please be aware of the types of men who post on these sites. As I was looking around plentoffish today (out of curiosity because you ladies have mentioned it) I found my X...being his usual slut puppy self...lying out both sides of his ass. Go to other dating sites...look for the ones you are interested in. If they post on more than one site you can bet they are players. Just be careful...protect yourself.
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Slow down on this road there isn’t much going on with this guy yet. Right now its all fantasy. All you two are doing is typing. He could be literally anyone. You have not met him. This flirtation how ever sexy it may seem is all in your mind and not in your behind at this point. (Remember people can and do mis –represent themselves on the Internet) So, Dahling…… before you start reaching in the back of the underwear drawer to dig out your best easy on/off leopard (the gates are open) thong stop and think. Ask your self some questions. I’ll get you started.
Why have I not given him my number? Why have I not arranged a first date with him? Does he show any positive characteristics in the short term that could lead to…. or possibly build on a long term friendship/relationship? Are my hormones telling me to pursue this hottie because I am over due for a Booty Call? If I do the Booty Call thing which may be out of character for me can I handle that? If age is just a number why in the back of my mind am I worried that some 30 year old with a big heart and open legs will stand in the way of my much needed Booty Call?
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That's some great advise you have there, visitingnow!!! Also, one can consider this...you must have huge doubts to post the question anyway. If you know in your heart things are right about this situation, then you wouldn't need us to try to talk you into it or out of it.
Listen to your own experience on this one Dah-ling!!! Best wishes........
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Well, Everyone, thanks for the solid advice....Yesterday, my imagination was in OverDrive allll day!! It has been so LONG since my Hormones have Raged,it's good to know they are any left.........:(..;-)
I am back to my senses now...... Whew!! It was a close call there for a while, though, as I do the closeness of a man. BUT, the right man is what I need.....am trying not to throw passion to the wind.... Thanks, Everyone!!
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