Rape Support Group

Im sorry to hear that...I have had some trouble with my family supporting me to...one thing to remember is u need time... time to heal and sort things out but what i can say is that what ur feeling is normal.. I still cry all the time, Im angry scared still dont sleep well andits been 6 months for me... I dont really have any specific feeling but if I had to pic it would be dead.... I feel dead inside...all the time Im here if u need to talk

I am sorry to hear that.I am glad he has been kicked out but I totally understand about family not understanding mine still doesn't understand after many many years.I am sorry to hear they are being like that.Do you have a therapist? Has your father been reported to the cops?I am just wondering if he is being held accoutable for what he is doing.

I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. I think that maybe your family's lack of support may be more from the shell shock of what your father did to you to support you to their fullest. I fully understand the numb feeling and all of the rest and I support you so you can get through everything that you need while you heal. Be well.

Gosh babe, I am so sorry to hear that. I too was raped by my dad so I know just how you are feeling. Is there anyone else you can talk to that you trust? I know it is very hard to trust anyone after what you have been through. It is normal to feel this way. I was raped Monday just gone but was abused for many years by my father so know how you are feeling. You need time to heal. I am here for you if you ever need anything. I am still healing, perhaps we can help each other. One thing I will say is that your mum cares enough to kick him out. My mother didn't do anything to protect me. I'm sure that she is struggling like you are and needs time to get over this just like you do. Maybe counselling for you both would be an option. Again, here if you need anything.
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Hello mollyee here .

My dad was around today it is the first time I have seen him since I came out of hospital on Tuesday morning I did not handle it well.
I was sick and I just cryed and cryed and now I just feel so dead inside and I don't see any point in going on. I know if I do anything to myself he has won.

My mam has know what has been happening to me for a few months now and did nothing about it.

Yes the police know about what happened but I don't know if I should let him get away with it because I have no fright left in me and no energy left. I do see a therapist what is helping but he says he can not help me until I make myself safe.

We are all here to help and to listen. The best thing you can do for yourself is to reach out to someone in your area. There are free resources that would provide free counseling services to you to help you process all of this. Talking about it does make it easier, I promise.

im sorry to hear that and i know that feeling of seeing him everytime you close your eyes but as long as he is out of the house he cant hurt you but you shouldnt let him get away with it you should have the police step in and i know that is a big step but it did help me to a certain degree

I agree, don't let him get away with what he did. You need to get yourself safe and there are alot of people who can help you achieve that. I told the police about my father and he was put away and that's helped me to move on with what he did. He has to know that you won't be beaten anymore and that you won't take what he does anymore. Always here for you if you need anything. I know how hard this is for you and not having a supportive family. Please lean on me if you need to