Rape Support Group

I hope it works out for you. Please be careful.

this sounds like it could be so damaging for you... :( if you feel like this is what you need to do i know that no words will stop you from doing it, but i just really want to urge you to be safe;physically, emotionally, and mentally. If this is something that could put you over the edge please please don't do it. I am so sorry it's gotten to the point that you feel you have to set yourself up to be abused to prove your story...i think this proves the fucked up society that we live in...is innocent until proven guity always the best?? not at all.

I wish you the best, and if you need anything feel free to talk to me anytime. please please PLEASE be safe and respect your body. Just becasue your father doesn't respect you doesn't mean you can't. Sometimes we only have ourselves, and we really need to depend on ourself to keep our bodies and minds safe.
Take Care

please be careful.

hi i hoope u be safe as i thought getting even was right i got hurt more

Terrible idea, NWO, I'm sorry. Awful plan.

For one thing, it opens YOU to all sorts of liability. I mean, you've just posted to an online forum that you plan to do this, and you've acknowledged it as a "plan for revenge." If you were to proceed, you could experience all sorts of trouble for it: entrapment, to start.

Besides, you're acknowledging that you're actually planning to enable this situation to happen as a sort of "trap." That alone would exonerate your father/abuser in the eyes of just about any jury in the world. Far from catching him, you'd have just given him the golden ticket to get out of jail free! I mean, a defense attorney would shred this case to bits, since you've publicly confessed this to be a pre-planned revenge effort.

Think a bit harder about this. Being sneaky and cunning are the methods of the abuser, so don't make them YOUR methods. That's an awful habit to start, and not a healthy way to engage the world.

It's not what you wanted to hear, but I'd rather be blunt than see you proceed and get defeated.

you what nothiong i could do would hurt him anyway so fuck it fuck him fuck justice i am just fucking fine with or without any thing happening to his fucking ass so i give up that fight and head on to a new one my new life

It sounds as though you're feeling quite let down by the legal system, does this mean that you've tried to report in the past and run into problems?
I'm glad you're living somewhere safe now anyway, I hope that gives you a chance to heal and eventually move on - just take good care of yourself.

I'm not sure I'm following through all the F-bombs. On one hand, you seem extremely motivated, but on the other you seem defeated and hopeless. I don't think this plan is wise and I think it'll hurt you more, but that doesn't mean the only answer is "then NOTHING works." That's all-or-none thinking.

I must agree with EmpoweredOKC. As awful as this sounds, your statements on here could be construed as consent such that it would undermine a rape prosecution. Setting all that aside for a moment, I would beg you to treat yourself with more respect than this.

I would not reccomend this babe. Placing a video tape on your father could back fire. You have to think that any attorney against you would argue that you set your father up, which would make that single act no proof at all, but rather black male or in fact, a wanted act. Please consider your decision completly before you do it....this is too risky