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HELP!! 15 and pregnant
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I am freaking out now and scared as hell. I have been out of rehab for a little over a month (more or less). I have been seeing my boyfriend (who still uses heroin) since I got out. I have thought about leaving him until he is better. I still don't believe it but I found out I am pregnant and I haven't told anyone. I am 15 (my birthday was last month). How can I do this? I am shaking because I don't know how to tell everyone and especially him. What do I do??? Please help I am so scared and really need the help.
Posted on 04/29/08, 02:04 pm
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Reply #1 - 04/29/08  3:41pm
" It is better to tell your parents first in my opinion and hopefully they can get over the shock and anger and help you need support during this time and need to get care for you and your baby and I think it is best to keep the boyfriend out of the picture for now because he wont do you any good until he himself is clean I wish you lots of luck but try to tell your parents so they can help you get the prenantal care yu and your baby need. God~Bless! "
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Reply #2 - 04/29/08  5:40pm
" Well tell your parents as soon as possible cause honestly thats the worst and hardest part!!Its not an easy task to do but eventually in time they come to accept it and be all for it!!
But you need help on certain things that mostly your parents can provide so dont hold off to long on telling them ..when i told my parents i just said "I know your going to be dissappointed but im pregnant"
and yeah but for your boyfriend tell him as soon as you can to its important for him to be involved!

message me anytime if you need anyone to talk "
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Reply #3 - 04/29/08  6:38pm
" hun the first people you should tell is your parents. they will help you im sure. your baby will be your will to live. my daughter changed my whole view on life. im 15 now and she is 4 months old. when you have your parents calm tell your boyfriend. and tell him that he needs to stop cause hes going to be a daddy soon and that is unexceptable. tell him he is no longer a child but now a father. i wish you the best of luck from here on out! "
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Reply #4 - 04/30/08  1:15am
" I was extremly scared at first just like you.First,just calm down and try to figure out a way to break the news.It's his baby so he does have the right to know because it is part of him.Don't stress too much about what he and others you might want to know might say when you tell them...Trust me,I'm sure you'll find someone to support you all the way through on whatever you choose!Good luck and if you need anymore help or have more questions,I'm here. :) "
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Reply #5 - 05/04/08  5:01pm
" Definately tell your parents 1st, they will come around, and that will be some wieght lifted off your shoulders, then u should tell your boyfriend.Who knows... the news may make him want to clean himself up or you him and your parents can have like a meeting or something to discuss, and come up with a plan to get him together so he can help you raise the baby! Best of luck to you =] "
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Reply #6 - 05/07/08  7:37am
" I know its a little late for me to post this but I hope you still get it.
I was 15 and pregnant but I ended up having an abortion. For a situation like yours it may be a good idea. Especially since you just got out of rehab... it is important that you get your life back on track and the added stress of an unwanted pregnancy and of raising a baby may cause a relapse (sad but true).
And you should deffinently get rid of your user bf... i've never had a substance abuse problem but I have been with one guy that was beginning to send me down an alcoholic path. i woke up in time to tell him to get out of my life and i straitened up. I also have friends who have gone o rehab and the most successful ones are the ones that start form scratch. Get rid of all your old using friends and stay away from anything that could cause a relapse atleast for a bit.
i hope things work out for you but if ever you wanna chat let me know... "
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Reply #7 - 05/07/08  2:09pm
" The best thing to do is go to the docto9r and get checked out if u havent already, u wanna make sure the baby dosent have heroin in its system. then tell ur parent and hopefully they'll give u the suport u need. let me know what happens "
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Reply #8 - 05/07/08  7:53pm
" the first thing is to remain calm. then, tell your parents. im sure they love you and will support you in whatever you decide to do. then tell your boyfriend. hopefully he will be willing to change for your child sake. good luck and im here if you need anything. "
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Reply #9 - 05/11/08  11:02am
" I went to the doctor and got the vitamins. So far everything has checked out. My worries now are in the fact that it seems I will be kicked out by my step father. It is in my journal too. I am very very very scared now. "
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Reply #10 - 05/12/08  8:56pm
" u would tell the people who matter most first eg: your mum and dad, and if your scared about telling your boyfriend after that maybe your parents can talk to him with you. i dont think you need to be as worried as you are, im 16 n im pregnant n i was REALLY scared about telling my parents and when i did i was really shocked because they where really supportive and didnt get angry, you may find it will be the same with you. and well done for getting off heroin, that is a really amazing thing, maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about doing the same, you never know when he finds out hes going to be a dad it might change him for the better :) "
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