Pregnancy - Teens Support Group

the only thing you can do now is make her go get a pregnancy test

thats what i did and i took four and they all came out posative
and i went to get a blood test, and also positive, and im 16
i havnt told my mom yet, so i cant help you with that part,
sorry im not much help

I think you guys should get a test done.. so if shes not pregnant you can relax and if she is then you can decide on your options. Telling both your parents first is a good start before you make any decisions. They can help you to make the right decision. Good luck

get the test. if shes not preg, then you dont need to warry, if she is... well all i can say is GIVE her the support she needs and support any decision she makes. i know how hard it is, i am doing it all on my own. im here if you need to talk, let me know how it goes.

Pregnancy test is the first thing. If your partner isn't pregnant,making sure you guys are very careful in the future is vital.

If she is pregnant, I truly feel you both(alone)need to sit down and talk openly and honestly about your feelings and whether or not you're both on agreement to a decision. Once you both have had a little time to talk about it,THEN sit your parents down and tell them. Expecting them to make a decision for you will only cause a rift. For instance,if your girlfriends parents say give the child up for adoption,and yours say keep it,this life altering incident is just going to cause a lot of emotional stress on everyone...especially if you and your girlfriend decide to raise the child!

BTW when my husband and I first met(I was 20 he was 27) neither one of us had an education. Having children doesn't take away from getting your education,in fact it propels you to do it in order to provide for your family(I found having a family doesn't hinder your progress,rather it's your own self doubt). The toughest part of having a family is making sure both parents nurture each other's needs as much as the child(ren).

Hugs,