What is Physical Emotional Abuse
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) or is u...
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I am so tired of the games .The are very implicitly designed to kill my soul and spirit .Games of control,games of helpless ness ,games of noncomittment and on and on and on.I am so sick of it.He laughs and is competent with everyone and everything but at home he is a different person.Like another child .God I married a man and got a child .I don't know .I do know that I have had enough of it all .My bags are packed and I am ready to have a life for myself .Its just that I am so worn down.How do I do this with nothing and no energy.GRRRRRR I feel like kicking asss if I could lift my leg LOL.
Posted on 05/15/08, 09:05 pm |
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Nightstar, run for your life. I sought out support from parents,siblings,aunts, uncles,church family etc... You can do it girlfriend 
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Dear nightstar, I hear a strong woman trying to get out. Every strength to you.
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You can do this....think of the awful alternative. Dont be affraid to ask for help. People dont always understand how badly we suffer but will usually be as supportive as they can
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Maybe you could manage to detach and gather your strength..before you actually leave?- Asking for help is a great idea..reach out, and others can help carry you through it..
My ex was super competant..outside the home..then he would come home and ignore me, maybe have a sreaming session, or make me feel in general like I could do nothing right..and all i did to please him..he kept upping the demands... I'm now out..and its very peaceful..Doing it 'alone' seems hard at times...but doing it 'alone' with someone..Feeling hurt abused and misunderstood, and unappreciated...is a lot harder..
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His games are taking its toll on your spirit. Let your anger carry you. Just take that first step, you will start to be momentum. It's just 1 step but its the one that matters the most. It is the first one you take, conciously, away from your abusive situation. After that its different. Your energy will wax and wane, but it will never leave you. Just that first step honey. Everything else will fall into place after that.
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Recognizing how he is certainly is a huge step in getting out...dont doubt yourself and do what you must to regain your life.
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