What is Pancreatic Cancer

Pancreatic cancer (also called cancer of the pancreas) is represented by the growth of a malignant tumour within the small pancreas organ. Each year about 31,000 individuals in the...

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when will the pain end??????
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my mom was diagnosised june 20th passed aug 10th very fast/painful. with her from begining till end does the pain ever ease???? what do i do now???
Posted on 08/18/07, 07:08 pm
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Reply #1 - 09/22/07  11:32pm
" no one replied to u...
I lost a sister 4 yrs ago and now my other sis has this PC, i dont know what will happend..the pain i think shifts. it gets easier but i know im changed from my 1st sisters death, and i know i will be from my 2nd sisters. Pray ..
and i even talk to my 1st sis. why not whos to say she cant hear me.
God Bless "
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Reply #2 - 09/23/07  3:51am
" I lost my mom to this and the first year was so hard. The 1st anniversary, the first Christmas without her, her birthday, Mother's Day without her was the hardest, and the 1st anniversary of her death. It's now been about 6 years and I am coping much better. I realized that I was being selfish with wanting her HERE on earth with ME, but in all reality, she is in a MUCH better place, and I now have an Angel up in Heaven - looking down on me. God Bless. "
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Reply #3 - 10/01/07  2:02pm
" I don't know.... my Dad was diagnosed 3/23/07 and passed on 7/23/07; exactly four months. He didn't die much before your mom, just a couple of weeks. There are weeks that I think I am doing better and then days when I think my whole world is falling apart. Honestly, I am much closer to my mom than I was my dad so I cannot imagine losing her - that will mean having NO parents and I am so scared of that! I have a lot of hurt and pain for my dad because he was only 55 and had so many plans for his life after retirement. His "retirement" was laying in a bed for 6 months. Anyway, I don't know if/when the pain will ease but it helps me to talk about it and if you want to talk, you can always send me a message! "
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Reply #4 - 12/06/07  12:22am
" The first few months after I was pretty numb and still in denial, then the pain came, and boy did it paralyze me. But here I am telling you that the pain gets more bearable. Of course there are those days where you are taken back to that horrible day, but then there are others that things are okay. I know my mom gives me all the strength I need, and I know that crying only makes her sad, so I try not do to it so often, but sometimes, weeping at the top of your lungs feels good. I never thought I could stand the thought of losing my mother, but here I am getting close to her one year anniversary of her death. Time continues on with no mercy. She is no longer suffering and she no longer has pancreatic cancer. Keep in touch. "
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Reply #5 - 12/29/07  12:30pm
" THE ONLY THING THAT WILL SHIFT THE PAIN IS MORPHINE,I LOST MY MOTHER IN LAW 16TH DEC THIS YEAR,SHE LOOKED LIKE A SKELETON AND SHE HAD A BIOPSY AND SHE WAS TO WEAK,AND 2 DAYS LATER SHE BLED INTERNALLY,LOVE YOU MUMXX "
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