Miscarriage or spontaneous abortion is the natural or accidental termination of a pregnancy at a stage where the embryo or the fetus is incapable of surviving, generally defined at...
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I Cant Cry... Help
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I had my 5th miscarriage on 7 December and had my first D/C on the 9 December and i thought that i was coping too well, but then realised its because for some reason i cannot bring myself to cry. Been to docs and they wanna put me on tablets (anti-depressants) and i don't want them. Seriously i'm loosing the plot what can i do. Plus i have the funeral coming up on the 8th February as well as my test results on 30 Jan( baby was taken and tested after the D/C to find out why it keeps happening.
Posted on 01/13/08, 10:01 am |
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Im so so sorry about your loss...
I have gone through the cant cry thing before. Not just with my m/c, but when other tragic things have happened. it comes and goes in phases for me. one of my professors told me once, that when we cry from peeling an onion, it is just salt and water in our tears. but when we cry from emotions, there are toxins from our bodies in our tears. so crying is really really good for us. give it time-dont force it. your body will let you know when it is ready to grieve this. if you dont want to take meds then dont. thats your choice, but sometimes they do help. either way make sure you do what is best for YOU. and beware-when you least expect it, a flashflood of tears will come. they will! hang in there. 
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