Miscarriage or spontaneous abortion is the natural or accidental termination of a pregnancy at a stage where the embryo or the fetus is incapable of surviving, generally defined at...
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nearly 4 years later why am i still so angry
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at the age of 16 i got pregnant to my exboyfried of 2 years, it was unplaned but the moment i found out i loved my baby. at 12 weeks i want for my 1st scan with my mum who was very disapointed that i was pregnant and we never told my father. she wanted me to have an abortion after the scan was planed to go see someone that i could talk to about the whole situation. but when i went for the scan there was no hartbeat. i was deverstated the nurse put me in a room on my own where someone was ment to come and see me. after an hour past with no sign of anyone i booked a D&C and left. after the D&C we never spoke of it again like it never happened. me and my mum are really close but i just cant speak to her about it. my current boyfried of nearly 3yrs knows the situation but doesnt really understand. i just dont no what to do.
Posted on 12/17/07, 11:12 am |
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I was pregnant when I was young and had a miscarriage in my 14th week. At the time I was very upset and angry and it took me a very long time to get over it. But I was not ready to have a baby and I knew that. I was very sad for a very long time. But that was 17 years ago. Now I am married to another man and he knows about what happened to me. I am no longer upset about that miscarriage because I am with someone whom I probably would never have met if I had a baby at that time in my life. I love my husband dearly and am thankful for the way things turned out with him because the guy I was with who got me pregnant when i was young was a real jerk! My husband and I are both so sad about our loss of Seth at in the 34th week of pregnancy but we are here for eachother. My ex was never there for me when I lost the other baby, he did not care at all. Keep your chin up, I know how hard it can be. But, trust me, it will get easier. It will never go away, but it does get easier. I have to tell myself that every day! Good luck to you. 
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I can understand why it is still bothering you. It sounds like you never really got to deal with the painful loss when it happened. Would it be possible to talk to your mom now? I understand if not. That is a hard one to suddenly bring up and want people to understand and empathize. I can understand why it would be hard to heal and find any closure. No one will acknowledge that it even happened!
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