Miscarriage or spontaneous abortion is the natural or accidental termination of a pregnancy at a stage where the embryo or the fetus is incapable of surviving, generally defined at...
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This month would of been Alex's birth month, Instead of being excited and feeling her inside me i have nothing. To make matters worse we tried again last month and i was 5 days late and getting really positive that something good was going to happen. Thursday i got my period. Just an hour after my baby sister (25) announced her 5th pregnancy!. I'm 10 years older and i cant even do the most natural thing in the world after 5 years of trying.
I felt very low thursday and made a comment to my partner that the world did not seem fair, he then told me he was sick of my self pity and lots of women cant have babies why do i think its only me. I am now finding it very hard to even bear to speak to him, i should have my baby this month, why can he not see this? Maybe he's right i will never be a mother, if that's the case i'm not sure what this world is all about! I know i sound selfish, but i just want to scream and shout, i dont want to be quiet, i want to stop hurting. Posted on 10/20/07, 11:10 am |
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I am so sorry for your loss. It is totally normal to feel bad around the time of your due date. I was a basketcase around mine. I was really moody, irritable and teary.
You are not selfish. I wish your husband could understand how you feel. Most of our husband's have difficulty understanding that. 
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I;m really sorry for your loss, at the moment i am dreading christmas as it was the due date of my 1st baby, and then my 2nd would have been due around my brithday.
sometimes the world doesnt seem fair, i think/feel that all the time. i feel a failure that i cant do the most natural thing in the world: make a baby and keep it safe. your not selfish at all, its only natural to want a baby, sure there are loads of women who cant have babies, but theyre not you!!! what you are feeling is the main thing at this point. maybe your husband is feeling hard about the time as well, me and my boyfriend keep clashing over silly things and when we eventually stop been stubborna dn talk about what is really causing these hurt feelings deep down, it always seems to be sopmething about missing our babies or feeling hurt, lost, sad about their loss. i dont think i could bear to be around him at times if we didnt talk about things. good luck i hope everything turns out ok for u xxx
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MY BOYFRIEND IS ABOUT THE SAME WAY. IM PG AGAIN AFTER LOSING TWO BABIES, I STARTED TO BLEED A LITTLE THE OTHER NIGHT. I MADE THE COMMENT WHY IS BAD STUFF ALWAYS HAPPEN TO ME. AND HE SAID YOUR GOING TO DO THAT AGAIN. ITS LIKE WE CANT FEEL BAD.
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sorry to hear about your loss, but i think your feelings are normal. all of us, including me, who have lost a baby just want to stop hurting. sometimes my hubby doesn't understand why i'm so sad. i think men in general just don't understand sometimes even though they want to.
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I recently started going to marriage counseling with my husband, and a huge part of the reason I felt we needed counseling was the way I didn't feel supported by him after we lost our son. I would really encourage you to think about getting counseling together. It could help him learn how to be more sensitive to you and help him understand that women and men often feel differently in this situation. You shouldn't have to hide what you are feeling; grieve however you need to grieve whether he understands it or not.
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