Miscarriage Support Group

yeah doesn't seem that long to me either but it's been a month tomorrow since my most recent loss. hey, it's totally normal to be upset when seeing babies, baby clothes and pregnant women. i can't imagine how hard it must be to see your mother-in-law fussing over a baby when you think it should be yours that she's adoring.
one day at a time, huh?

SWEETIE,I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY,I LOST MY BABY ON 3/9/07.AND I TO HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR ANOTHER.BUT HAVE NOT SUCCEDED.NO PERIOD YET SO.I FEEL AS IF ILL NEVER CARRY ANOTHER BABY TO TERM AGAIN.YES I DO HAVE 4 KIDS.BUT I HAVE LOST TO ANGELS ALSO.SO I DO KNOW HOW IT FEELS.SO TRY NOT TO GIVE UP.IM AM HERE IF YA WANNA TALK.TAKE CARE.

I am relieved to know that i'm not alone. I it has been a long/short two weeks since my m/c and it is so hard. The same questions keep running through my head. and then i get so mad, my cousin is pregnant (teen mother) and living in the same city as my mom and all either of them can talk about is her baby. gggrrr it just makes me so mad.

And good luck to you with the getting pregnant again! I know my doc said that one m/c does not affect your chances with carrying another baby. But i think its recomended to have a certain number of periods before you try again to give the uterus time to replenish the lining and so you know the due date more easily. But i'm not a doc. SO good LUCK! and chin up!

I completely understand what you are feeling right now. It will be a year since I lost my angel this april 21st. Such a hard day for me, let me just say. I feel like even though I'm making progess, I will never be all the way "over it" or better." It took me a long time (as in MONTHS) after I miscarried to be able to look at a pregnant person without loosing it right there or going home and just crying my eyes out. But things changed eventually, and with time, they will for you too. I've been able to get to where I can be happy for friends who are pregnant and I can look at babies again. I have not held one yet, but I will someday and it will be amazing. Hang in there and give it time- nobody is expecting you to all of sudden wave a magic wand and be brand new again. Your baby died...of course you're going to be sad about that. Quite frankly, I think it would almost be disrespectful to not be sad because then it would be like saying nothing bad ever happened or you didn't care.

On a more positive note...yay for trying again. I would want to caution you in trying again so early- depending on what your doctor said. Mine told me to wait until after at least 2 cycles (we weren't going to try again). Just to be safe, you might want to check. But I think that's fabulous and want to wish you the best of luck!

I still cry alot too!! It has been 9months since mine misscarriage and i think about it everyday!! ESpecially at work I am a nanny for a 1and a half year old boy and a 4 year old girl!! Different things keep me motivated to presws on each day and right now we are trying to get pregnant again!!! GOod luck and hang in there. I'm here to talk to you anytime!!! !