What is Miscarriage Stillbirth
Miscarriage or spontaneous abortion is the natural or accidental termination of a pregnancy at a stage where the embryo or the fetus is incapable of surviving, ...
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Around my town there are a lot of pregnant women that I see everyday. But the hardest person I have to see around would be one of my exs that I could have been very very happy with. But I chose another guy over him. Now he's got a son and its very hard for me to realize that maybe his son couldve been mine too. Its been about two weeks since my last miscarriage. I guess Im havin such a hard time letting this one go because it was supposed to change a few things and make them better. Instead, like always, it back fires and Im stuck feeling worse than before. Me and my ex that now has the son never really tried to have a baby but I bet we could have succeeded and been sooo happy. I guess Im jus havin trouble with letting him go now more than ever cuz they jus had their baby and his babys mama could have been me if i was smart enough to jus chose the right path instead of a 'safe' path. I was jus scared I guess... I wish I knew how to fix all these feelings and make me feel better.
Posted on 05/09/08, 02:05 am |
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Ah the what if game. We have all played that one. Try not to dwell on it too much. Easier said than done I know. I've made my share of mistakes and all we can do is try to learn from them for the next time. I'm sorry for your losses. 
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I think that when we choose a partner we are choosing them to be daddies to our babies (even tho we might not realise it at the time). I bet the man u chose is reliable and kind and loving....that's what u want for a new baby. Try to keep looking forward...I know how hard it can be. Good luck with ur recovery x
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the "what ifs" can be very dangerous. i know i have been doing that since i lost my baby 3 wks ago. what if i didnt lift this? or what if i ate better? frankly there is a reason you are with the man you are with and not your ex. thinking of all the "what ifs" will make you head spin. try and grieve your baby and spend time with the man you truly love.
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i feel your pain from this. i too have been with a guy and after we broke up they got someone else pregnant.it has happened to me several times. and it doesn't get any easier for me. i finally got pregnant with my recent partner and had a miscarriage. i ask my myself, why me? you can write me if you want to talk more. peace and love to you.
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