Miscarriage Support Group

For some odd reason lighting candles has helped me throughout this whole process. It helps me relax a lot. You could also try hot bubble bath or write in a journal. All of these things have helped me relax. I'm thinking of you and I'll keep you in my prayers!

Candles are very relaxing. Another thing that can help is potpourri, like lavender or vanilla. Lavender is a naturally calming. Hang in there sweetie and keep us posted!

Ok i just got back. He just talked to me . He said to wait one month and then start trying again but to start taking the metfroim again. I am just sitting here crying like i have cried b4 . I have no clue what is wrong with me . I think i was holding on to something! And when i left and don't have to go back until 1 year unless i get pg really made me understand what i have went through 2 weeks ago. Has anyone ever took 2 weeks until they broke down? It hurts so bad . I don't know what happend to me . Iam so upset and empty now!

My son Gavin was stillborn and I found out at a routine appointment with my OB. Two weeks after he was stillborn I had to go back for a check and it was the worst thing for me. I was obviously extremely upset when I first found out he was dead but I think I went into shock. After, everything turned into big blur---when I had to go back for the check everything hit me at once. I sat in the waiting room trying to hold back the tears. Every staff member I saw brought back the horrible memories of that dreadful day. I went home and cried and cried. I am so sorry that you had such a rough day but I think it is totally normal. Give yourself some time and take care of yourself. Again I am so sorry!

we went in for our first ultrsound to hear the heartbeat but no heartbeat was found, the baby had pretty much died that day or the day before I was in shock.
three weeks later it all hit me after the doctor told me to come in next year or when i was pregnant, and I have been a crying wreck ever since but crying help.

I hope everything works out for you take some time and relax and do something for yourself!

Hun, I completely understand. I completely lost it and broke down at my first dr. visit after lossing Conner. The dr. and staff were wonderful but it makes it all so real. Hang in there. It gets better. I promise.

I am so sorry you are going through this. I have anxieties every time I go to the doctor now and actually everytime I talk to her. Please let me know how the appt went.