What is Miscarriage Stillbirth
Miscarriage or spontaneous abortion is the natural or accidental termination of a pregnancy at a stage where the embryo or the fetus is incapable of surviving, ...
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Today is my first attempt at coping with the loss of my baby. It has been a year and I have ignored the feelings for too long. I was in a new relationship when i got pregnant but i knew i loved him. It was unplanned but i was so happy. 4 months later i misscarried and had to have a d&c. I felt like i was crazy for being so devistated so i didn't talk about it. I am now dealing with sevear depression and can't shake it. I would give ANYTHING to be pregnant again. How do I start to heal?
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You've all ready started by coming forward like this. D.S is great and these women are amazing. Whenever I am having a bad day I just come here and talk about it and someone always replies. Some things that have helped me with the loss of my baby was naming her, making a book for Morgan where I wrote her letters, poems and pics of me pregnant. I also bought a ring with her birthstone which I have never taken off and I celebrated my due date. These are just some suggestions. I am here if you ever want to talk. You can message me whenever you want! Take care of yourself =) 
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your starting by talking about it. losing a child i have discovered it the worst pain in the world. this site has helped me tremendously. although things are still stuff its nice to know that i have the women on here to rely on for support. never feel alone..we are here for u.
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I agree with the other two, you have come to a great place. We have all been there and know what it's like. Somethings I have done to heal are to Talk about it, journal, I have letters I have written to my angels, I have charms on my necklace for each baby I have lost, I have made a CD dedicated to my twins, I listen to it all the time. I named the babies. My twins were named before I lost them but I lost my third lil angel at 8 weeks before I knew the sex. I just knew it was a little girl so I named her as well. I have an angel box with my twins names on it that sits on my mantle and a box of all the stuff I from the pregnancies... positive pregnancy tests, pictures, bears I got when I delivered, etc... It is a tough road, but there will be light again. I still have rough days but I think everyone does. Hang in there and I am here if you want to talk. Hugs to you...
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Thank you all for you encouragment! It has helped me a lot.
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