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I have never been in any kind of relationship before and I am just yearning for some love, I am getting too desperate and Its damaging my life to a severe extent. I really dont know what to do, I just want the emotional love, the companionship and its like no matter what I do I cant have it, I dont know what to do, and the desperation is making it as bad as to lead to.....(gggrrr, dont want to post it on here) porn addictions. Does that make sense? It makes sense to me, and I know that if I can find something else to do, or someone to fill the hole I have in my heart, than it wont be as bad as it is, if a problem at all. I just dont know how to find anyone....there arent any lesbians around here and I know that there may be some that just havent come out yet, but I just dont know how to do this, I came very close a few times but they all would rather have gone out with someone else, someone they have dated before....etc. I think I need some advice but I think people respond to discussions more than advice.....plz tell me what u think I should do....anyone???
Posted on 07/14/08, 11:07 pm
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Reply #11 - 07/18/08  1:23pm
" I agree with the last two posts, I know you might not feel it but you are very young so don't rush things! Also I don't want to sound nasty but you said that you feel that you are repelling these girls/women, maybe they think/feel that you are desperate and trust me that is a put off, so relax and take your time! If you use porn thats ok. I am single and use porn A LOT so your not the only one, so don't be ashamed or embarrased about it, you are human and have needs! So my advice is carry on using porn if you need to and try to relax more around women. "
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Reply #12 - 07/21/08  11:54pm
" i repel people... its like somepeople get sex apeal and other get the oppisit... i cannot attract anyone... girls or guys... im getting really lonely "
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