Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

I need to prove to you that i was not lieing. I am NOT trying to break up your relationship or cause you any pain, but i don't apreciate being called a crazy bitch and a retard when i have evidence on my god damm hugbook that she had not told me, and had talked to me a couple days before we had that conversation on msn. on my hugbook is a hug she gave me LESS THEN A WEEK AGO that says something along the lines of "oh how i wish you were here"

you said a week and a half 3 or so days ago... that message is a less then a week old.

I want you to be happy, i have nothing against you and i'm not saying to break up with her, i'm just saying the truth. take it or leave it.

also, please understand that (and correct me if i am wrong, but i'm speaking for the whole community here) that calling someone rude names isn't respectful, and that we should be supportive of eachother no matter what our endevors because there are too many people still trying to hurt us that it seems crazy to me that we should try to hurt eachother.

and on a side note, using the word "retarded," although i am not, breaks my heart because it is another word that is used like "that's so gay" with a negative conotation (sp?) Being mentally disabled is not something to crack jokes about. My guess is that you were just unaware, but please understand that next time you feel inclinded to call someone names, don't use the word "retarded." even stupid is better.

Ok... well thanks for trying to get people to hate me on here right away.

That is our issue and our issue alone and it is very rude and immature that you bring it up on here... but that is fine.

I am sorry for calling you that, I was frustrated and angry... i sent you a pm and i would just appreciate it if you could respect what I said. If not, thats ok too... i can deal.

just want to clarify. you are a good person, so is E. i'm not saying that in any way shape or form. but you blocked me on ds, i couldn't get a message to you and you blocked me on msn. so how else was I going to get you to listen to me?

Ok, this was not the point of my post at all... I just posted to say hello and introduce myself. This was a huge deal for me, and I am kinda just hurt that you felt the need to respond in this way.

for that i'm sorry. I do understand that it wasn't the most respectful thing to do, i was just a little too determined to make sure you knew the whole truth. but now that you do i'm off and I hope i have not ruined your whole day!!

i am sooo confused...what are you all talking about?

Nothing nothing... just a thing between us that i wish she hadnt brought up on this post


Just wanted to join here and maybe find some friends to talk to about it all...

Well, I am a little confused too... but Welcome!

hey, Im sorry that u didnt get what u wanted out of this post, mayb i can b of some assistance?? I just joined here myself, and I was just about to post something like this to introduce myself....R u just finding out ur a lesbian or r u just starting ur first lesbian relationship?? Sorry ur post doesnt quite say much....anyways welcome and u can always write me just to talk...I dont seem to get messages anymore...