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Reply #1 -
04/25/08
7:47am
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I don't believe racism just exists in the South, but you certainly hear about it more. And my wife and I can certainly relate. My wife is caucasian and I am African-American. We've been married for three years now, and still get those looks, especially from African-American women. It was worse when we were dating. We know a lot of interracial couples who are also married and have children, too. And we have a number of friends who support us. And our families have no problems with us.
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Reply #2 -
04/25/08
8:20am
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Well I hope you and your wife just stay strong and ignore those people who give you the looks. Good Luck :)
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Reply #3 -
04/25/08
10:30am
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I live up North and I believe it is definately accepted more here than in the South! It still exists. I went on vacation last summer in the South with my family and needless to say some places we went the people made us very uncomfortable! Unfortunately Racism will always exist!
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Reply #4 -
04/25/08
5:05pm
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When my mom moved me to PA I saw lots of racism there. I hated it there and I was picked on for having really tan skin. they didn't know what race I was so they called me every racial slur in the book!
That's one thing I like about living here in Hawaii, I never gotta worry about crap like that and i'm so sick and tired of it!! I hate racism with a passion! I don't understand it and I don't like it and I won't ever except it! There is absolutely no point in racism. I wish it would go away, it's like a cancer!
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Reply #5 -
04/26/08
1:41am
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The South is the most racist part in this country than all the other states! my mom is from the South, which is really sad with their fucked up mentality and lack of common sense!
I believe the racism is more in the South than anywhere else like i said. They will never be open minded and they dont like mix racing anyway. AZ is not a fan of mix racing but i do see it a lot.
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Reply #6 -
05/01/08
9:31pm
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My husband is from the south but we live in Vegas where there is no prejudice. It wasn't until I went to the south that I saw the prejudice and I was SHOCKED and DISGUSTED. Move out of there sister!
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Reply #7 -
05/02/08
5:49pm
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There are various forms of racism, one is blatant (what you seem to be experiencing) and the other is aversive... I would say that racism has been more aversive in nature than blatant as the years have gone by but we have a lot of work to do!
The west coast is pretty nice. Sacramento , California has the highest amount of interracial couples according to a census a few years back. San Francisco is so large and diverse that interracial couples are a given, they are not seen as unusual.
Love is love. You're so strong!
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Reply #8 -
05/03/08
5:55pm
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I am glad everyone has jumped in and given me there opinion on this it has helped alot :)
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Reply #9 -
05/08/08
3:53pm
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i know exactly how you feel, minus the job part...i have never had any probs w/ my jobs..me & my husband have been together for 10 yrs & have 3 children...i am a very pale blonde & he is very very dark so our children are very dark...we have a very small social circle by choice...i think as long as you have one another & are in love...let them look & talk...i'm use to it..we live in green bay & anywhere we go we get looks. other people's ignorance no longer bothers me & my husband seems to enjoy the stares....
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Reply #10 -
05/08/08
11:46pm
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I am always proud to be a mixed couple. I love mixed couples that have had children together...I see that as the solution to racisim in many thousands of years from now if the world is still here! I was done having children when my current relationship began.
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