Infidelity Support Group

I tried evreything, so far the only thing that has helped is prayer. It took me a long time to really talk to god again and not just ask him to look after my family, kids etc.
When I finally talked to him and told him I couldnt do this and I was at my wits end. The change in me started and now I am doing so much better. I will pray for you also.
I will also say this, it is very hard to put a date on your healing so be very patient, still hold him accountable(this is very important right now), and love yourself first, you deserve it!

Hi Em, I just finished a book that was great and Im sure I will re-read it alot. It is called Why men love bithes, (from doormat to dream girl) A womans guid to holding her own in a relationship. By Sherry Argov.

My H and I are working hard to rid ourselves of all that is negative...may take forever but we are starting with our marriage...he has proposed to me with a new ring and we consider our old marriage gone and looking forward to our new marriage...we had a fogiveness ceremony between he and I and will remarry next year on a new date to celebrate. I just couldn't celebrate the old one anymore. We try to do one thing nice for eachother each day and are taking time to have lunch at least once a week. He accidently gave us new nicknames that we use in private and we got new email addresses that he and I communicate with each other through only...at least once a day. And if you saw my earlier post this week...we shaved him so there was no hair left that she had touched. That one made us laugh :)

I don't really have any advice on this...except for good luck emerald! (((HUG)))
Johnna that book title is funny, I have to look it up!

I have read many affair books but have found that inspirational books have helped me more....such as "An hour to live and hour to love".

Google "Dr Frank Gunzburg". He sends you e-mails almost on a daily basis as to what to expect and how to rebuild the trust.