Adultery is generally defined as consensual sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than his or her lawful spouse. In many jurisdictions, an unmarried person who ...
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OK - my husband of 14 yrs moved out and directly in with his 26 yr old assoc. She stays at her place when the kids come over. Now asshole wants the kids to start hanging out with her, which my kids do not want to do - it's only been 3 months. Now I find out that neither of ow's parents know what she is doing. So if you are so ashamed, why do you want to drag my kids into it?
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The OW in my situations had the same issue. She didn't want her parents to know because it was wrong. Her mother did find out and had many fights with her about it. Her father didn't know. The last time she tried to contact my H, I threatened to talk to her father and she quickly backed off.
These people have no conscience. She knows what she's doing is wrong. To drag your children into it is unforgivable! I'm so sorry, really I am. Hang in there! 
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Why don't you contact her parents? what do you have to lose? I believe that affairs thrive because of the secrecy.
The truth will set you free....
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tell all you have no obligation to keep anyone's secrets and it's not good for your kids...hugs to you...
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I don't see why someone hasn't contacted her parents. Maybe they should know what their little girl is up to.
How old are your kids? If they are old enough to not want to see her or hang out with her, she needs to respect that. Even if not, she should respect your wishes. I wouldn't want my ex's whore anywhere near my baby if he was still alive. The thought is sickning. The fact that she wants to drag children into this mess is proof of how immature and unstable she is. How disgusting. Clearly God DOES make mistakes.
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Remind your H of how important it is to keep the children's feelings and overall well-being first and foremost. Remind him that he may be ready to move on past his marriage but that children of any age need more time than he did to mourn the family as they knew it. iF he ever wants them to accept her new relationship he would be wise to give the children more time and actually take the lead from them without offering pressure. In fact to have the children share their time with their father with someone else is very unfair since the separation has probably limited the time they get to spend with him any way. Making children share their parent time with a stranger that soon is unrealistic and can do some lasting damage. P.S. I work as a school psychologist so I know a little something about the subject. Say it matter of factly not that they will never spend time with the other woman or in anger (at least try... I know not easy.. trust me). Stick up for your kids. Remind him he's their dad and if he's been a good dad let him know that too.
Best wishes
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