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A few weeks ago we started getting vacation brochures in the mail. They were from Nebraska and Florida. OW lives in FL now. I suspected it was her because right about that time, we started getting anonymous phone calls. We'd pick it up and nobody would talk. We'd finally end up hanging up the phone. Today we got one from the town she lives in. Why is it after all this time I still get ruffled? I want the bitch to fall off a very steep cliff somewhere.
Posted on 07/07/08, 02:07 pm
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Reply #1 - 07/07/08  3:17pm
" Is there anyway you can send her a nice brochure of a funeral home? and maybe nice little grave lots in HER neiborhood? That should get the point across,lol Sorry but I fight fire with fire and this woman needs taking down a notch or two Just an Idea :) "
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Reply #2 - 07/07/08  3:20pm
" Oh and I forgot it should be untraceable ;0) "
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Reply #3 - 07/07/08  3:24pm
" LOL, Linda, I love that ideal!! :) "
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Reply #4 - 07/09/08  12:22am
" You coul put her on every magazine's mailing list and let her receive tons of junk mail!
But, seriously...the opposite of love is NOT hat it's indifferance!
The one thing that the OW craves is attention! Even negative attention is preferable to no attention at all...so don't give her any attention! I would contact the phone company about what to do about the annoying phone calls...maybe they can block her...wouldn't that be great? "
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Reply #5 - 07/09/08  12:35am
" I say send her a brochure of The Grand Canyon and invite her! (Just for shits n giggles! They have that platform thingy now ya know?...J/K! But it WOULD be funny!) :-p Geeze...ya just can't stop these psychotic ones can ya? Must SUCK to be them! Oh...and you get ruffled because YOU KNOW they are not right in the head! UM...HELLO??? There's something NOT RIGHT about this...if you have bunnies, HIDE THEM! & Then smack your fuckin' husband around for bringing this shit in to your life! (Only half kidding about that!) Sorry you are going through it. Oh....change your # too! "
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Reply #6 - 07/09/08  1:08am
" GO LINDA! Love your ideas. You are a woman after my own heart!

Jrsygirl113, you are also the bomb. Here's a nice evil idea from naughty, wicked, stone bitch me. Do you know here phone number? If you do, register her with telemarketer you can find!

Because who doesn't LOVE GETTING INTERRUPTED WHEN THEY ARE JUST ABOUT TO SIT DOWN TO DINNER! EVIL LOL!

Joybean, good idea!

You all realize, for a bunch of nice people, we can be real nasty! In the words of Loretta Lynn, "We'll have to go to Fist City!"

DEFINE NICE! LOL! "
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Reply #7 - 07/09/08  1:39am
" *adjusting halo* ;-) "
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Reply #8 - 07/09/08  2:41am
" Haha, I love those ideas Linda, jrsygrl, joybean and emeraldflame!

In all seriousness, perhaps it is time to go unlisted in the phone directory or change your number so she can no longer bother you.

If you have definite proof that these things are from her, perhaps filing a harrassment charge would be appropriate. "
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Reply #9 - 07/09/08  10:10am
" do you have caller id is the call traceable you could always star 67 to find out who it realy is. she is desperate and wants to cause all the trouble she can. call the phone company but first keep a log coz they will want that and they can block her nu for you.
Best of luck and hugs "
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Reply #10 - 07/09/08  10:49am
" Honey Chile.....IT"S CLEARLY OBVIOUS SHE'S HURTING INSIDE..HE CHOSE YOU. I wouldn't let her riun what I have going with my man..but I would surely make him aware that this is what happens when HE decided to add someone to YOUR LIVES. Oh and by the way...that's harrassment...I would get my phone bills and keep record of anything and everything...cause eventually she will slip. Then I'd have to will myself not to break her damn neck and file cahrges. Then she can continue her affair with a woman behind bars....or I would surely show up at her church (with pocket recorder of coarse) and FOREWARN her lonely, miserable a-- that either she back the fudge off, move on her with her life and leave yours alone or you take the highest legal action available to let her know your not playing!!!!! "
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