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update on Hubby AWOL weekend
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Well I heard from the MIA at 2pm today he text me me two words(will call) I thought dont bother (wont answer) LOL! well 45 min later still no call so i snuggled back in bed to watch a movie(On his dime, LOL I have ordered a bunch of movies on cable tv at his expense hehehe) anyway the phone rings another 30 min later and he says" hey baby, hows it going" I was shook by his nonchalant no big deal attitude and all i could barley muster out of my mouth was "what??" he said "how is going there?" I say everything her is just fine why?" he starts trying to tell me that "this was just an unplanned spur of the moment thing that he needed to get away for a bit from everyone because he hates people...." I stopped him right there and said stop. dont even bother trying to lie anymore I saw you had packed your cloths in you car the day before and you packed your toothbrush, meds and all you bathroom essentials so dont even try to lie to me anymore." I will give him credit in the fact that he did shutup and allowed me to go on i told him in a monotone voice that he should consider staying where he was for a while and think about what he is going to do now because I cant help him. I told him he was sick and needs help to deal with his problems. Thats when he exploded with the WELL IF YOU WERENT SO SUSPICIOUS AND JELIOUS! I said whatever Im not going to argue with you about it anymore. He said his battery was going dead and he would call me back later He still hasent and thats OK (kinda)
Posted on 06/28/08, 09:06 pm |
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anyway i wrote in my journal again today about all this in another letter to my husband. It helps to journal and say all the things i wish i could say to him. Thank you sooo much everybody on DS for helping me stay strong. Iv only had one real break down into tears (and that while I watching (The Bucket List movie) SAD 
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In thinking back on things, my husband used that excuse too. He just needed to get away.. hated people..needed a break from reality. And the few times he was gone for a couple of days he lied to me and told me he had gone camping on the Arkansas river with his buddy Sean. In reality he had driven up to Tulsa and hopped a plane to go see that bitch in Pennsylvania. Of course I didn't know any of this when it was happening because ow was paying for his plane tickets!
Johna, I'm sorry you're going through this. I hate to say it but I don't buy your husband's ill excuses either. Hang in there girl..you're strong and you will do what's right. *hugs*
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Well Johnna, I will be next to go threw this, so I am really going to need my words to come back to me. He is already doing the want out, not happy nothing in common, and so on. I said to him if he wants a divorce that I will get it for him in afew months. He said that he so much wants to say yes, but knows that he may regret it. I am thinking about going AWOL guys. He is always the one that leaves, goes off, and checks out things. He has said that he wants the house if we break up. that he thinks me and jesse can go to an apt, and if the house sells he will give me half no matter what or how long. NOPE!! Not gonna happen!! Wonder what HE would do if HE woke up and found ME gone. NOT a word. Wed july 2 is our 8th wedding anniversary. Maybe I know what I will give him. For me it's not a 180 to get him back it's a 180 for him to go and stay gone. So, the next few weeks...HELP!!!
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