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We are planning to go visit my family next week. My wife has told a friend of hers that she is not planning to go. She has not told me this yet. She gets along great with my family. My concern is that if I am out of town for a week, she'll be entertaining. I am thinking that if she does not go--it is going to be over. Am I overreacting? I planning to ask her this afternoon--what the deal is.
Posted on 06/25/08, 02:06 pm |
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No i dont think your over reacting, because
if you have no trust right now, you wont enjoy yourself at all visiting with your family,your mind will constantly thinking about what she is doing? You will not be at peace with your visit. Why wont she go, i have always been there at family functions. Tell her it means something for her to be there! 
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This is just what her best friend told me. She is going to say that she needs some time alone or she will invent some emergency---she is supposed to be working on a grant this summer. So I am betting that something will suddenly pop up that needs to be done next week.
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It's not about your wife not wanting to visit your family.
It's about your wife planning on being dishonest with you. It's your call to make, but it sounds like she has problems being honest. I wouldn't try to reconcile with someone who constantly lied to me.
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You are certainly not over reacting. As the person who cheated she can "inconvenience" herself and go for the greater good.
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You need to tell her what you feel about her not wanting to go if she does indeed come up with an excuse trying to get out of it. Let her know that you feel this could be a deal breaker if she doesnt go with you and just how important it is for your marriage for her to try to understand this and bit the bullet and just go with you. She may be afraid that your family knows whats up and she may be afraid to face em. Just my thoughts
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