What is Infidelity

Adultery is generally defined as consensual sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than his or her lawful spouse. In many jurisdictions, an unmarried person who ...

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how many years have you been married?

In which year of your marriage did the adultery start?
Posted on 06/21/08, 08:06 am
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Reply #11 - 06/21/08  12:48pm
" finishing year 8. It will be 9 years this July, if we make it. "
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Reply #12 - 06/21/08  12:50pm
" Still married..for 34 years!
Cheating started at 22 yrs.,lasted for the next
4 1/2 (or so)!

Glad to report,he is a different man & we are happily married! "
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Reply #13 - 06/21/08  12:52pm
" We have been married 11yrs. This year will be 12. The affair started during year 10. It lasted five months. From Sept of 07 to Feb of 08. "
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Reply #14 - 06/21/08  12:54pm
" July will be 10 years, affair was in our ninth year. This is second marriage for both of us, he got divorced in the 9th year of his first marriage. Nine is not a good number for him. Not so sure if we will make it through our 10th. Trying very hard but last two days have been not so good. "
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Reply #15 - 06/21/08  1:17pm
" Going on 5 years. Cheated on me after the birth of our second child. We were married for three years at that point. "
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Reply #16 - 06/21/08  2:33pm
" 21 years June 14.
First proof that I have is an e-mail to her from him May 2003.
I found out about the sex Aug 6,2007 when I attached a recorder to our house phones. Had I not done that, I feel it would still be going on. "
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Reply #17 - 06/21/08  2:39pm
" Maried one year on June 6th. His affair was 3 months before our wedding. "
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Reply #18 - 06/21/08  2:43pm
" We will be happily celebrating our 20th this September. I had a brief affair at 18 1/2 years. "
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Reply #19 - 06/21/08  3:51pm
" MARRID 20 YEARS GOING ON 21 SOON....AFFAIR STARTED A YEAR AGAO AND HAS ENDED AND WE ARE WORKING ON OUR MARRIGE "
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Reply #20 - 06/21/08  4:12pm
" Been married 14 years next month.
Affair started 1 year ago. "
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