Adultery is generally defined as consensual sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than his or her lawful spouse. In many jurisdictions, an u...
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I've asked my H to call OW in my presence and set up a meeting in a public place. I feel like I have to, must, can't go on without seeing what she looks like. I can't take her constant reminders that she is now a part of my life even if my H doesn't have contact anymore. She just won't go away! I find myself looking at every woman that might fit her description and wondering "is that her?". I work in a very busy retail environment and she knows everything about me. I wouldn't know her if I fell over her. Am I right for trying to meet her? I just want to see her and tell her plainly to stay away(since the NC letter apparently didn't work).
Posted on 05/17/08, 12:05 am |
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If you want to see her that is one thing, but I would not confront her or speak to her. Just look at her from afar if that is what you need to do. Confronting her and speaking to her may just inflame her and make her determined to stay in contact with your H. Don't give her that power. Remain a mystery.
I know the OW in our situation. After the affair I ignore her. It is as if she is invisible. She does things all the time to get my attention, but I don't give it to her. I think it drives her nuts and anything I can do to make her life more miserable without impacting mine is a plus in my book. 
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(WOMAN CAN DO ANYTHING THAT MEN CAN DO.)
Aslong as they can do it sttting down or laying down.
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You have to do what is right for you. I already knew what the OW looked like so the images are there but I think they would be if I did not know her. I don't image what she looks like BUT what they did together.
If you have already tried a letter then go face to face with your husband and both of you tell her to back off.
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