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Renewing our vows
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Ok everyone.. I need some help. I have not been on here for a while but to quickly fill you in. My H and I are doing well. I brought up the idea of renewing our vows to him recently and he agreed. I believe that this will give us the fresh start that we really need to continue moving forward. He has come along way in the forgiveness process and I am truely blessed to have this amazing man in my life!!
I asked him if he would go away for a long weekend with me just the two of us and we could reaffirm our love for each other. I want us to write our own vows rather than the tradidional ones. I want them to be very special! I am having some trouble and I was hoping some of you might be able to offer some assistance. Any ideas? Posted on 05/16/08, 03:05 pm |
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Had my H and I not divorced renewing our vows was what I would have like to do, I believe it will be a wanderful thing.
Right now it hurts me to think of what I could have said so I'm not of much help to you. Make sure you say what are the most important things in your heart. Good for you, sounds like you and your H have made it. 
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hi i think this is a lovely think to do,but as you are the one who cheated then please be really sure that you are committed remember you have done this once and broken your vows and it would be so cruel and unfare to put someone through that again,so be sure.
i hope one day for my husband and i to do it but it is to raw for me to believe him and to forgive him for breaking our vows in the first place,i do wish you all the happiness.
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I am hoping my H and I can renew our vows also. (my H had the A).
My main reason for wanting to renew them was to start over again with the "forsaking all others" part. I want to start with a fresh slate.
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Good Luck and it sounds like a great idea. Me and my dh went away together alone without kids as we were rebuilding our marriage and it was great for us. We also got new wedding bands (never did a ceremony or anything) as I had a hard time looking at my old one.
Just keep it simple and reaffirm your love and your committment to each other ...especially during difficult times!!
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I found this online.
On our wedding day, I pledged many things to you, including my faithfulness. With great sorrow and regret, I acknowledge that I broke that vow but I realize now the enormity of my mistake. Others come and go, but you are the constant in my life whom I will always love. I believe in this marriage more than ever, and I reaffirm my love and commitment to you. On our wedding day, I pledged to love you in sickness and in health, and for better or worse. The past year has tested those vows, but our enduring love for one another has prevailed. I come here today to make a fresh start, to renew our vows of love, honor, and fidelity, and to reaffirm my love for you. 6 years ago, I promised to love you for as long as we both should live. I never imagined that I would face losing you so soon, or the depths of despair I would feel at that prospect. Today, we are on the other side of the mountain, and I am so ecstatic that I get to continue life's journey by your side. Once again, I promise to love you, honor you and keep you, for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for as long as we both shall live.
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Sounds like a great way to start a new life/a new beginning. My husband asked me this week that he would love it if we renew our vows too. I told him that renewing our vows is to forgive each other and forget what has happened in the past and start a new beginning. He wants to make me happy. The problem is that I still haven't forgotten his "A". So I don't think I am mentally ready. Make sure he is not feeling pressured into doing this.
I think the best things to write for the vows are the things that truly come from the heart. I wish you and your husband a great new beginning.
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