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I have broken up with my boyfriend (11 days ago) and i must admit I do still love him dearly and hope that he thinks about what he has done and come home (but I will not put up with his shit). I have cried off and on and sometimes I feel good and think maybe he might call and come home so we can talk about this, but then I will go back to hurting all over again. Why do I feel like everythings ok and I am in a good mood, but then all of a sudden I am hurting and crying all over again.
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Not sure of the why but that's how it works for me too, and I suspect others as well. It's not so drastic now as it was at first, I can go days feeling ok now and then wham I want to smack him. 
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Welcome to the rollercoaster dear. I am sorry you had to get on.
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Fuzzybunny said a mouthful!!!!
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Mood swings are very normal, part of the grieving process. I can be calm, mad, stressed, sad, blue all in a span of one day. This situation just tosses you around. It will get better.
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Honestly, you should be more concerned if you didn't have rollercoaster feelings. It's part of the package. I get to points where I'm so "over it" I'm sure I'll never feel the hurt, pain, abandonment, frustration, humiliation, etc. and within seconds something will set me off and I think the pain is worse than when I first found out. I will say that the feeling that I might survive happens more often now and lasts for a longer period of time. I'm even actually able to tell myself to stand up and go on whereas in the beginning no way could I even lift my head.
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Im still very much suffering from this. I can see now that im not alone! Im wondering just for how long does this last?
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It is normal to feel that way, it is to soon to get over it. What would be best is cry out all of your emotions. It will make you feel better the next day. Just do not give in. If he wants you back in his life, he will let you know. Do not be tempted to call him o.k. If he doesn't come back, then you should move on. I hope this helped and I hope you feel better soon.
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Mood changes means you're crazy. Kidding. It's totally normal.
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"Mean" you're crazy. Will someone fix the grammar and spell check on this thing?!
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Just seems to be the way it goes. I'm in the same boat but am trying to gain strength in knowing that I am saving myself alot of pain in the long run. I try to visualize better things for myself in the future and disconnect from him because...when I play the whole tape...he would never make me happy. Good luck....we're all lifting each other up and that helps.
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