What is Infidelity

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I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
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We have since moved away and hubby got a new job to get away from the OW. His boss at his old job asked my H for a contact so they could call him in case they needed help with some of the project my H left unfinished. So H gave them (including the OW) his work email. THis was the one thing I asked him not to do, I didn't want her knowing where he worked and now she does. I feel so betrayed all over again. I don't know what to do.
Posted on 05/14/08, 02:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/14/08  3:16pm
" Could you ask him to give them home email so you could monitor emails (I realize he could delete them).

I'm not sure what to advise--if your H moved to get away from OW, that's good. If she initiates contact, that's bad. How well can you trust H? "
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Reply #2 - 05/14/08  3:29pm
" I guess I feel like now she knows where he works and that is the worst part for me. I wanted her out of our lives. "
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Reply #3 - 05/14/08  4:34pm
" If you asked your husband not to and he did, I'd make a big deal out of that. Now you can't start with a clean slate...I'd be pissed. Please, for your own sake, don't let him off the hook. "
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Reply #4 - 05/14/08  4:55pm
" This doesn't make a lot of sense, why give her his email if he doesn't want contact? I think you should make a big deal of this too, no contact is no contact. "
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Reply #5 - 05/14/08  7:46pm
" I am fuzzy on why he gave it to her. My husband kept seeing the whore after HE begged me to take him back??? I don't get it...make a choice. One or the other. "
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Reply #6 - 05/14/08  8:34pm
" You could show her the note, but make light of it. Like, "hey look what someone left on my car, the poor fool sure placed it on the wrong vehicle, I wonder where it was suppose to go?" GOOD LUCK !!! "
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