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I recently discovered my husband of 24 yrs has been having an affair with a childhood friend for the past 6 mo. I …
Adultery is generally defined as consensual sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than his or her lawful spouse. In many jurisdictions, an u...

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We have since moved away and hubby got a new job to get away from the OW. His boss at his old job asked my H for a contact so they could call him in case they needed help with some of the project my H left unfinished. So H gave them (including the OW) his work email. THis was the one thing I asked him not to do, I didn't want her knowing where he worked and now she does. I feel so betrayed all over again. I don't know what to do.
Posted on 05/14/08, 02:05 pm |
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Could you ask him to give them home email so you could monitor emails (I realize he could delete them).
I'm not sure what to advise--if your H moved to get away from OW, that's good. If she initiates contact, that's bad. How well can you trust H?
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I guess I feel like now she knows where he works and that is the worst part for me. I wanted her out of our lives.
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If you asked your husband not to and he did, I'd make a big deal out of that. Now you can't start with a clean slate...I'd be pissed. Please, for your own sake, don't let him off the hook.
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This doesn't make a lot of sense, why give her his email if he doesn't want contact? I think you should make a big deal of this too, no contact is no contact.
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I am fuzzy on why he gave it to her. My husband kept seeing the whore after HE begged me to take him back??? I don't get it...make a choice. One or the other.
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You could show her the note, but make light of it. Like, "hey look what someone left on my car, the poor fool sure placed it on the wrong vehicle, I wonder where it was suppose to go?" GOOD LUCK !!!
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