Infidelity Support Group

1. medium sized city
2. yes I had met the OW she worked with my H
3. no addiction
4. no mental problem
5. my H is 37 and she was 33
6. married 16 years
7. yes we had a good marriage

1) Y

2) Y

3) N

4) N

5) 39, F

6) 20 yrs

7) No, fair

There are some other questions, eg:

8) did the cheater marry young?

9) did the cheater have a good support network of friends, family or from their spouse.

10) Kids?

11)spend a lot of time alone or away?

1. She lived in small town, husband lived there for 6 months while working on a project. I visited husband.
H and I live in another small town.
2.No did not know her
3.Alcoholic
4.no
5.male 43
6.12 years

1) Small city

2) knew of her, but never met her.

3) No

4) No

5) 48-male

6) 17yrs married, 22 yrs together

7) yes-I thought our marriage was very good

1. big city
2. no
3. yes, sexual addiction compulsion
4. yes, bipolar, ocd
5. 29, female
6. 12 years
7. very good

1) Lived in a big city
2) I didn't know the OM
3) No addictions (other than greed)
4) No
5) 36 - female
6) married 7 years
7) No, marriage sucked

1, Medium sized town in England
2, No I didn't know her until after I found out and then she came round to apologise....bitch.
3, Yes my fiance is a sex/porn addict.
4, He was suffering from stress at the time but that's it and who doesn't have stress?
5, he is 22
6, We arn't married yet as I want to know I can trust him before we tie the knot.
7, My relationship is good in every other aspect other than this sex addiction.

Results after 25 replies.
1) 10 SMALL TOWN

RESULTS AFTER 26 REPLIES
1) 10 small town - 10 Big City - 1 Big Town - 4 Middle size cities - 2 small cities

2) Did you (the betrayed know the Om / Ow?
14 Yes - 10 No - 4 in between

3) cheater have an addiction?
10 yes - 16 no

4) cheater have mental problem?
12 yes - 15 no

5) age of cheaters?
1 in 20's, 13 in 30's, 9 in 40's, 1 in 50's
sex of cheaters"
18 male / 9 female

6) length of marriage at beginning of affair? I will list the years of marriage, several will be repeated because many of you gave the same year length for the beginning of the affair
2,3,4,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,12,12,12,13,14,15,16,17,17,17,20,20,24,25,33

7) your opinion about the Good or bad state of your marriage before you knew of infidelity?
15 Good marriage / 10 Bad marriage

1) Do you live in small town or city? Chicago - Big City

2) Did the betrayed in your situation know the OW / OM? Yes it was a co-worker

3) Did the cheater in your situation have some type of addiction? Pot, alcohol, work


4) Did the cheater in your situation have some type of mental problem? Depression
for example: Bi-polar or depression

5) How old is the cheater in your situation and are they female or male? Male 32 (husband) her 29

6) How long were you married when the cheating started? Married 3 years, together total of 10 years

7) Before you knew about the infidelity did you consider your marriage good? No, we were seperated already living apart.