What is Infidelity

Adultery is generally defined as consensual sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than his or her lawful spouse. In many jurisdictions, an unmarried person who ...

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They did wrong and make us feel like we did?
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Why is it that they betrayed us, and somehow can manipulate us into thinking we are the wrong one?

Or they can feel that they have the right to ask questions about our passwords or where we have been on the computer?

Are you kidding me?

When my H asks for my password for my computer, my response is: You didn't need to know pre-A, why do you need to know how? Did I do something to betray you?

Today he wanted to know "So...what yo udoiing on your computer.. I said nothing. He says, really? You are looking at a blank screen?

Why does he think I need to report in to him?

Hello!!! You should be reporting into me!!!
Posted on 05/05/08, 04:05 pm
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Reply #11 - 05/06/08  7:01pm
" Remember that the best defense is a good offense. "
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Reply #12 - 05/06/08  8:52pm
" I think their zealous. They don't want us but they don't want anyone else to have us either. "
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Reply #13 - 05/06/08  8:53pm
" sorry, jealous "
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Reply #14 - 05/06/08  9:46pm
" My H just did this to me this am - wanted passwords and wanted to know what I was doing on the computer. The other night when I made a short stop into a wine bar on our way to a restaurant to say hi to the owner/friend my H asked me if I was saying hello to my boyfriend.

I reminded him that unlike the OW, this man is "just a friend" and that we never kissed, had sex oral or otherwise, talked about sex, was alone with him, touched him, had dinner with him, and I never went anywhere with him, slept in a motel room with him or at his house, etc., etc., etc.

My H got bent and accused me of trying to make him feel bad again - HELL HE BROUGHT IT UP!!!!! "
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Reply #15 - 05/07/08  3:20am
" Haha, I love that responce amithat...YOU are trying to make HIM feel bad?

How about how he has made you feel? Has he ever considered that? What a self centered, selfish, and inappropriate responce. You shouldn't have to "try" to make him feel bad...he SHOULD feel sorry and remorseful for what he did to you! Some people are really truely unbelievable... "
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Reply #16 - 05/07/08  2:05pm
" They do that because they know the signs of cheating and affairs. They automatically think if you are doing things like texting, going out or spending time on the computer that you are like them and have something on the side. For me, I could NEVER cheat while being married. I would leave him if I felt feelings for anyone. But I would never act on those feelings until we were divorced. There lies the difference between cheaters and non-cheaters. I actually have respect not only for im, but more for myself. I would never stoop so low. "
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Reply #17 - 05/07/08  2:51pm
" My husband has cheated twice,
the 1st time he showed remorse,
the 2nd time he blamed me that
i led him to cheat because i
couldnt get over the first
time and i had alot of distrust
which caused us problems,
which in turn he said i drove him there! I still dont
think he has ever really fully
taken responsibility for the
2nd time, and the girl was a fatal attraction that beat me up. It is like cheaters
try to find some reason why they stepped over the fence
because they dont want to
take resposibility! "
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Reply #18 - 05/07/08  2:56pm
" smiley...I think we married the same man! Except he's with her now & they are PERFECT for eachother, lemme tell ya! LMFAO!...Good frikkin' luck to them!*skipping away* "
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Reply #19 - 05/08/08  1:44pm
" that's because he's feeling guilty for what he's done to you and he's trying to justify cheating on you. "
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