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About 1 month after I discovered my H's affair, we had to attend a wedding.

I must say it was the most horrible thing to sit and listen to. I couldn't even be happy for the couple who were married.

It brought me back to my wedding day (17 years ago) and the vows we took.

Now, I have a bridal shower and another wedding to go to.

I have no desire to go to either. I have already responded yes to the wedding, as it is in July, and hadn't yet gone to the first wedding.

But I don't know what to do....
Posted on 04/30/08, 06:04 pm
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Reply #21 - 05/20/08  12:12pm
" Oh, we are so into this season. I have 3 weddings. One coming up real fast. I plan on using it as a way to see family and friends and just have fun. Maybe it'll spark something nice for our marriage too. May have to use my two year old as an excuse to get out of the church for a breather. "
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Reply #22 - 05/20/08  12:37pm
" Has anyone noticed how much we torture ourselves thinking we are doing the right thing? Don't go if it's too hard they will understand! "
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Reply #23 - 05/20/08  1:52pm
" There is no way I could be happy during a wedding right now either. Be strong. "
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