What is Infidelity

Adultery is generally defined as consensual sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than his or her lawful spouse. In many jurisdictions, an unmarried person who ...

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i thought I knew him we have been together for 20 years and married 11 1/2 now been seperated for 9 months now .He started to lose weight and started to look real nice i mean really nice dressing better than ever she was buying him clothes he continues to take care of his appearance there were numerous calls from her on the cell phone bill . She came to my home to talk to me and tell me that there were feelings between them. only to hurt me of course! he started a relationship with my ex best friend about a year ago and continues to see her and spend time with her and her Family. He continues to say that they are just friends Ha? he says he wants to get back together "just give him time" he says.Itoo want to be with him and make it work better than ever if given the opportunity I am frustrated and confused.
Posted on 07/17/08, 09:07 pm
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Reply #1 - 07/17/08  10:29pm
" As hard as it may seem it may be time you start to consider other alternatives. You might enjoy spending more time on yourself and new clothes. You might also enjoy a night out with friends or even a dinner date. It is possible when he realizes you are not going to wait forever may do the trick. He likes having his cake and eating it too kind of thing. He knows you are the ole faithful standby at this point. You deserve better. Get strong stay strong and start moving on. Don't waste precious time it is a gift we never get back.
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Reply #2 - 07/17/08  11:26pm
" great advice kitcat....

why do we stay in such abusive relationships "
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Reply #3 - 07/19/08  4:48pm
" I agree with mskitcat, take care of yourself and explore your alternatives. Do you want to be a doormat for him forever? "
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Reply #4 - 07/19/08  5:08pm
" Get out there and show 'em what you got!!

Start dating and he'll be jealous as hell.

If that doesn't do it, nothing will and you'll have to accept that he's not coming back.

Either way you need to look out for yourself. Don't let him call all the shots.

- Joanne "
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