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I dated this guy for a few months and I totally fell for him. Everything about us felt perfect the whole time we were dating, so it was a big shocker when he broke up with me. He told me about a week later that it was a huge mistake and he wanted me back, but it didn't work out because he found out about some not-so-great behaviour I'd had with another friend of mine before the breakup. It's been about two months, and since then I've found out that I'm pregnant and it couldn't be anyone's but his. Half the time he's been fine about it, really excited and saying he still has feelings for me; the other half he hates me and doesn't care about the kid at all. I still don't know if I'm keeping the baby or not. I want to be a mom, but this situation is terrible and I honestly don't think I'm ready. Then there's the additional issue of the guy coming to me for the sex he knows he can get because it's the only way I can still have anything with him. I'm a freaking doormat. Any advice?
Posted on 07/18/08, 03:07 am |
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well, one question is if u have spoken w/ ur parents yet. also, for the bf u have to sit down w/ him and talk to him straight, b/c if u guys end up raising the baby, fatherhood isnt a part time deal, its a full-time job, so really u have to talk to the bf, but make sure u are also doing wat u feel is right, dont go solely on wat the bf thinks. also, u say the bf gets sex b/c thts the only way u still hve anything w/ him? a relationship is A LOT more than just sex. plus, u should give ur parents the heads-up, but thts whenever u feel comfortable or at least ready w/ doing so. stay strong =] 
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I haven't told them yet. I want to get a good handle on everything first. The biggest issue is that he isn't my boyfried anymore =/ He doesn't even know wether he wants to be involved with the baby or not, so he's making the whole thing a lot more difficult.
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one thing this guy has to understand is this baby is coming no matter wat. point being also if u want him to be involved and if ur answer is "no" then ur over one jurdle but i understand tht tht question is not a simple yes or no question. but u have to first think wat is best 4 u, then the baby, i kno the order i have put may seem weird, but if u focus only on wats best for the baby as of now, and u urself goes to the dogs tht isnt good for ANYONE esspcially urself.
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