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how do you like to be talked to during sex to turn you on more? What is it you say to your mate or what is it they say to you?

I have had men that talk extremely dirty as if talking to a whore, big turn on, but now, as I get older, men don't seem to talk much, just an occasional groan...LOL
Posted on 08/22/07, 11:08 pm
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Reply #1 - 08/23/07  2:52am
" It's been so long that I don't remember, lol. Actually, I don't like dirty talk. I prefer non-verbal communication with my woman. The eyes say it all. "
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Reply #2 - 08/23/07  12:01pm
" I dont like to talk at all..Someone talking to me is ok.I can live with it or without it..too dirty is a turn off.. "
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Reply #3 - 08/23/07  3:30pm
" im thinking theres a time and a place for everything. talking can be lots of fun but sometimes a girls just gotta be taken (and silently) haha "
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Reply #4 - 08/23/07  4:22pm
" I have always wanted to do this, and have the wife talk dirty as well, but she just is not into it. "
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Reply #5 - 08/23/07  5:01pm
" I like dirty and my fiance likes dirty...fun! If you can't have fun in bed...than what else is there to do...missionary? As for what we say, it's mostly saying stuff like "you have such a big *beep*" But, in a dirty way or " I'm going to *beep* you so hard till you scream" Etc. "
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Reply #6 - 08/23/07  5:04pm
" I love my man to dirty talk...especially when I least expect it. Like when we are in a store or when I am doing dishes and he whispers in my ear what he wants to do to me.

Now while doing it, I like it in spurts and short sentences. I don't want him to be talking the whole time...just when the heat is unbearable.

I love to talk dirty to him. I love initiating and I love it when I know I am successful in making him horny.....makes me more horny. "
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Reply #7 - 08/23/07  7:55pm
" We don't talk dirty during sex. I catch her off guard in the grocery store, in the kitchen. I will tell her in very graphic detail in her ear how she is going to be violated or ravished later on. She gets that evil smile on her face, blushes and giggles.When she wears a light summer blouse, her nipples get visibly erect..I love teasing her that way. "
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Reply #8 - 08/23/07  10:21pm
" I remember not too long ago...I was giving my guy oral sex and in the middle of it, I said somethign to the effect about his big c***...OMG it drove him crazy! Now I just need to get him to talk dirty back! LOL "
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Reply #9 - 08/23/07  11:57pm
" there is nothing wrong with talking dirty,i'm really into that like if he could let me his fantasy. But my guy isn't entirely quite just not dirty enough lol
Maybe i need ask? "
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Reply #10 - 08/24/07  12:44am
" I would love to just ask my bf to talk dirty more to me, but asking is a hard thing to do!
I did mention to him one to smack my ass once in a while...he loves doing it now...ALL THE TIME...LOL "
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