Healthy Sex Support Group

Are you talking to him-he might feel more comfortable after hearing you do it.

I am! Nothing too raunchy since I haven't heard much from him, but I definitely tell him what I like and what I want to do to him. He says he likes it when I tell him those things, but I never get much back.

Mine never talks dirty,not in person,not on the phone...Nothing,nada,zilch......
I dont like it too raunchy myself but a little nasty is good.

Honestly, I never participated in nasty talk-my X would have stopped, gotten up and left me there for being so naughty! But, when I met a man and he wanted it-it was tough for me at first. He started me out slowly, with questions, or requests for me to say certain things. As I got more comfortable with it-and understood how much it meant to him-I stopped needing the prompting-maybe that approach would work?

I love dirty talk . Of course my wife says no but she will do it for me ,but all i get is :f%ck me" or Cum for me" that is about it but it is something. Tease him a little make him work for it. see what happens

I've never talked dirt with my wife - guess cuz it would only be me hearing it as she is hearing impaired! :>D But I do LOVE when she talks the talk and walks the walk - but it's not too often lately :>(

To your question - You can teach an old dog new tricks - maybe he needs a little more 'coachin'?

Yeah, I love this too. But alot of guys are just uncomfortable doing it or its not their thing! And hell - some can't focus on making you cum and talking at the same time! haha

lol flutter - kinda hard wth their mouths full

actually I kinda felt a little wrong talking dirty for a few years, I think some people may have reservations about saying sexual phrases outloud, due to to there upbringing.
If any of my elders would have heard me as a child say some of the things I have uttered during sex, my mouth would have been washed out with soap.lol Now as an ole man, I simply wish to enhance every fleeting oppurtunity while doing the deed, with a lot of provacative comments and suggestions, could be I talk to much now? Girls, can a guy be to vocal in the sack?

TA, I don't think so, the more the better. That really helps to send me over the edge. Just don't talk about having to go mow the lawn or take out the trash. lol

(Or ) Don't say what my Ex-fiancee said onetime... "Don't get too excited now." I left the room crying.